Thursday, February 1, 2024

Editor's Corner

 


By Mary E. Adair

February 2024

.“February, a form pale-vestured, wildly fair.
One of the North Wind’s daughters with icicles in her

― Edgar Fawcett


The shortest month which only once every four years gains a day--just a day after all that waiting, has arrived. Maybe it's so short because it doesn't like hanging around in the cold. Nonetheless, there are some memorable dates: family events of course, and smack dab in the center there's sweet Valentine's Day when showing your love is not frowned upon, rather almost insistently encouraged.


Did any of our authors wax eloquent on Valentine's Day, nay. A couple alluded to a romantic period in their life, but no specific dates. Your editor is happy to see a new year beginning for this eZine which has published the compositions of more than 500 writers.


Thomas F. O'Neill in "Introspective" looks at endings rather than beginnings as warnings that "The end is near." Marilyn Carnell's column "Sifoddling Along" focused in her charming manner on the past, not the future, on a trip that may well have been one of the cornerstones in her life. Judith Kroll's column "On Trek" allows her to find her voice and discuss some firm beliefs concerning our choices, and where we make them. Pauline Evanosky's column "Woo Woo" gives us insight into perhaps a tiny amount of what psychics do when they are asked questions. Our new columnist Ara Parisien in "Medium-Author-Spiritual Teacher" has a popular theme for this month--Manifesting. It's easy for her so she shares some insight with us.


Rod Cohenour's helpmate wows us with a meal to make you feel like you stepped into another country--Cuba to be specific. "Cooking with Rod" has all the details and how to prepare right in your own kitchen. "Armchair Genealogy" by columnist Melinda Cohenour details the shocking updates around the many bodies discovered, victims, it most likely seems, of one person, who has been apprehended. Much of the evidence is supported and refined using DNA, and most recently, Nuclear DNA processes. Dublin's Mattie Lennon fills his column "Irish Eyes" with an experience he declares is to be rued, but it does make for quite a tale.


Walt Perryman has for us "Right or Wrong Ramble," "Cancer Check-up!" and "Happy Birthday to Laura, my Wife" along with a pic of Laura and himself for that occasion. Bruce Clifford's two poems are "A Thought" and "Every Passing Day." Bud Lemire's compassionate poem "Walter" is touching, and "A Cold January" and "1950" wind up his poems this month. John I. Blair's choice of poems to enjoy are "Counting The Flower Buds," "Pencil Stubs," "Rainbow," and "Hello, Stranger."


Now with this new year of Pencil Stubs Online underway, we are again astounded that a simple suggestion 27 years ago by Mike Craner that we try doing our magazine on the World Wide Web, has blossomed so beautifully. Again, I am expressing my gratitude to my talented friend and original webmaster Mike Craner. We place our confidence in him as we have in the past and shall continue doing so.

See you in March!.


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Armchair Genealogy

 


By Melinda Cohenour

Gilgo Beach Serial Killer news Update

A new charge has been brought against Rex Andrew Heuermann in connection with the remains of victims found on Gilgo Beach. Heuermann was previously charged with the murders of Melissa Barthelemy, Megan Waterman, and Amber Costello. On January 16, 2024, Heuermann was officially charged with Murder in the Second Degree for bringing about the death of Maureen Brainard-Barnes "on or about July 9, 2007."

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Early in July of 2007, Maureen Brainard-Barnes was feeling stressed and desperate. Facing an impending eviction notice and fearing for the well-being of her two young children, Maureen headed to New York along with a friend where the two women would market their bodies in an attempt to earn enough money to avoid financial catastrophe.


A typical trip to the City would involve placing ads on Craig's List or Backpage. On this particular trip, Maureen was accompanied by a friend who later urged her to return with her to Connecticut. Maureen declined. A video of that friend's memory of that last fateful trip may be viewed here: Video


The decision to stay and try to earn more money would prove to be a fatal choice for Maureen. In a phone call to another friend in Connecticut late on July 9, 2007, Maureen advised she was not following her usual procedure of entertaining her customer in her hotel room but was making an "outcall." That was the last time anyone would speak with Maureen. Her phone, however, would be used.


On July 12, 2007, Maureen's cellphone was used to check her voicemail.
Source:https://abc11.com/gilgo-beach-serial-killings-rex-heurmann-news-murders-timeline/14326351/

'Personal cell phone and credit card billing records revealed numerous instances where Heuermann was in the general locations as burner phones, which authorities say he had with him at the killings. He used the phones to call the three victims and also used "Brainard-Barnes and Barthelemy's cellphones when they were used to check voicemail and make taunting phone calls after the women disappeared," Suffolk County prosecutors allege.'

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GILGO BEACH FOUR DISCOVERED


In December of 2010, Maureen Brainard-Barnes' skeletal remains were discovered near the remains of Melissa Barthelemy, Megan Waterman, and Amber Costello in the tangled brush on Gilgo Beach as Suffolk County's Police searched for the body of Shannan Gilbert in vain. Of those four victims, three sets of remains were shrouded in camouflage burlap material. Brainard-Barnes remains lacked a burlap shroud but were bound by use of three leather belts. One very distinctive belt bore stylized initials.

One very distinctive belt bore stylized initials


The initials may be “WH,” which matches Heuermann’s grandfather, William Heuermann


On the buckle of one of the three belts binding Brainard-Barnes was a human hair. Testing of that hair determined it matched to Heuermann's wife, tying Heuermann to the disposition of her body.

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JANUARY 16, 2024



Heuermann Court Appearance


Alleged Gilgo serial Killer Rex Heuermann appears inside Judge Timothy P. Mazzei's courtroom with his attorney Michael Brown at Suffolk County Court in Riverhead, N.Y. on Tuesday, Jan. 16, 2024. Heuermann is indicted in the death of Maureen Brainard-Barnes. (James Carbone/Newsday via AP)

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***Various extracts from the Superseding Indictment and pertinent references specific to the Murder Charge now levied against Defendant Heuermann as to the murder of Maureen Brainard-Barnes:


Today, Defendant Rex A. Heuermann stands before this Court charged by the Grand Jury in a Superseding Indictment, which incorporates not only the above counts, but the additional charge of:

    • MURDER IN THE SECOND DEGREE, in violation of New York State Penal Law Section 125.25(1), a class A-I violent felony for the death of Maureen Brainard-Barnes on or about July 9, 2007.
    ***
    The People filed a written bail application at Rex A. Heuermann’s initial arraignment, which occurred on July 14, 2023. That application is annexed hereto as Exhibit A.


On July 14, 2023, the Hon. Richard Ambro ordered that Defendant Rex A. Heuermann be remanded without bail. The matter was subsequently adjourned to August 1, 2023, before the Hon. Timothy P. Mazzei. On August 1, 2023, and in the ensuing appearances that have followed, this Court has continued to remand the Defendant without bail.


Set forth below is the People’s bail application in support of the Superseding Indictment, which will expand on additional evidentiary developments in this investigation not included within Exhibit A, further tying Defendant Heuermann to the murders of Melissa Barthelemy, Megan Waterman, Amber Costello, and now, Maureen Brainard-Barnes.

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EXCITING ADVANCEMENT IN ANALYSIS OF HAIR TO EXTRACT DNA GENOTYPE FROM ROOTLESS HAIR

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DNA Analysis of Hairs Recovered from the Examination of the Victims’ Bodies


During the course of this investigation, each of the four victims’ bodies were examined by a Forensic Scientist with the Suffolk County Crime Laboratory, which revealed as follows:

Maureen Brainard-Barnes

Ms. Brainard-Barnes had been left restrained by 3 leather belts, one of which was utilized to tie Barnes’ feet/ankle/legs together. During the examination of the belts, a female human hair was recovered from the buckle of one of the belts by the Suffolk County Crime Lab (hereinafter “Female Hair on Barnes”). On or about December 18, 2010, the Suffolk County Laboratory (examined) this hair and was able to determine that it corresponded to a “Caucasian head hair fragment.” Although this hair was not suitable for nuclear DNA profiling at that time, it was subsequently submitted for further DNA analysis.

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Source: https://patch.com/new-york/riverhead/gilgo-suspect-rex-heuermann-be-charged-4th-murder-docs


Tierney said the Suffolk County Crime lab as well as two outside forensic laboratories, conducting testing of hairs recovered on various victims, specifically compared the DNA profiles generated from those hairs recovered at the crime scenes to DNA profiles developed from Heuermann and members of his immediate family.


Throughout the investigation, key evidence has included the five hairs found on the victims. Nuclear DNA testing helped provide more accurate results, Tierney said.


Nuclear DNA is found in the cell nucleus; mitochondrial DNA is found in cell cytoplasm, according to reports.


Brainard-Barnes, the report said, had been left restrained by three leather belts, one of which was used to tie her feet, ankles, and legs together. A female human hair was found on the buckle.


The DNA profile generated from the female hair on Barnes, recovered from the belt buckle "is 7.9 trillion times more likely to have come from a person genetically identical to Asa Ellerup's SNP Genotype file than from an unrelated individual," the bail report said.

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Daughter's DNA Helped Link Gilgo Suspect Rex Heuermann To Murders: DA


Nuclear DNA technology led to new information, Suffolk County District Attorney Ray Tierney says.


RIVERHEAD, NY — Rex Heuermann, the man charged in three of the Gilgo Beach murders, has been charged with the murder of a fourth woman, Maureen Brainard-Barnes, according to Suffolk County District Attorney Ray Tierney. And new DNA evidence revealed Tuesday helped connect Heuermann to all four of the deaths, he said.


Heuermann was charged with second-degree murder, an A-1 violent felony, in the death of Brainard-Barnes on July 9, 2007, Tierney said.

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Last July, Heuermann, of Massapequa Park, was indicted on three counts of first-degree murder charges and three counts of second-degree murder charges in the deaths of sex workers Melissa Barthelemy, Megan Waterman and Amber Costello, whose remains were found along Ocean Parkway in 2010. Heuermann also pleaded not guilty to the charges.


A total of 11 sets of remains were found in the Gilgo Beach murders, which rocked Long Island, including that of a toddler and an Asian male.


Tierney said Monday that he and other members of the Gilgo Beach Homicide Investigation Task Force were set to announce a "significant development" in the case Tuesday.


Melissa Cann, Brainard-Barnes' sister and her daughter Nicolette Brainard-Barnes appeared in the courtroom Tuesday, as did Asa Ellerup, Heuermann's estranged wife.


According to the bail report, Ellerup and the couple's children were also out of town on the date that Brainard-Barnes went missing; they were also away for the previous murders, according to the DA.


According to the bail report, additional burner phones and online activity were linked to Heuermann. The burner phones revealed communications with sex workers as well as a new email account of Heuermann's, which was subscribed to the fictitious name of Andrew Roberts, Tierney. said.


That "Sandbagger" account was utilized as recently as April 2021, to access and conduct searches related to "pornography, rape, torture and sex workers several thousand times," the bail report said. Heuermann, the report said, also searched for information regarding the Gilgo Beach investigation and the victim's relatives.


An analysis of his laptop indicated the use of a file shredding software on July 9, 2009, shortly before he was to meet Barthelemy; investigators believe it was an attempt to "shred" any digital evidence of the laptop computer utilized to search for her prostitution advertisement, the report said.


An analysis of his laptop revealed that on September 1, 2010, at 9:03 p.m. Heuermann accessed Amber Costello's Backstage ad; about two hours later, a burner phone linked to Heuermann had communications with Costello's phone, the report said, adding that during those communications, the burner cellphone connected to cell site towers in West Amityville and Massapequa Park.


Later, the cellphone traveled to West Babylon, near Costello's home, and again had contact with her phone on Sept. 2, 2010, which is when witnesses said he arrived at her residence, the report said.


"Despite Defendant Heuermann's attempts to 'wipe out' or 'scrub' his laptop computer, he was unsuccessful in concealing his access to Ms. Costello's Backpage ad," the report said.

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DNA analysis


Tierney said the Suffolk County Crime lab as well as two outside forensic laboratories, conducting testing of hairs recovered on various victims, specifically compared the DNA profiles generated from those hairs recovered at the crime scenes to DNA profiles developed from Heuermann and members of his immediate family.


In September, a cheek swab taken recently from Heuermann matched DNA found on pizza crust disposed of by Heuermann — a key part of evidence that officials say led to his arrest.


Members of the Gilgo Beach task force met with Heuermann's wife Asa Ellerup and his daughter, Victoria Heuermann, and stepson, Christopher Sheridan, to obtain buccal swab. The swabs were tested against 11 bottles found in garbage cans placed in front of Heuermann's home on July 21, 2022, as well as a "Monster Java" can, the report said.


Investigators saw Victoria Heuermann drinking from the can while on a Long Island Rail Road train; they took the can after she discarded it in a trash bin, the bail report said.


Throughout the investigation, key evidence has included the five hairs found on the victims. Nuclear DNA testing helped provide more accurate results, Tierney said.


Nuclear DNA is found in the cell nucleus; mitochondrial DNA is found in cell cytoplasm, according to reports.


Brainard-Barnes, the report said, had been left restrained by three leather belts, one of which was used to tie her feet, ankles, and legs together. A female human hair was found on the buckle.


The DNA profile generated from the female hair on Barnes, recovered from the belt buckle "is 7.9 trillion times more likely to have come from a person genetically identical to Asa Ellerup's SNP Genotype file than from an unrelated individual," the bail report said. .....


Two female hairs were found on Megan Waterman; a DNA profile generated said the hair was 2.374 x 10 to the 48th power, to have come from a person genetically linked to Ellerup's profile than to an unrelated individual, the report said. The second hair, recovered from the tape from Waterman's head area, is 2.778 x 10 to the 480th power to come from a person genetically identical to Ellerup's profile, the report said.


A female hair found on Costello, after a one-to-one autosomal nuclear DNA comparison, said it was 4.654 x 10 to the 63d power more likely to have come from a person genetically linked to Victoria Heuermann's SNP Genotype file than from an unrelated individual, the report said. At the time of Costello's disappearance and murder, Victoria Heuermann would have been about a month shy of her 14th birthday, the report said.


Two forensic labs have independently determined that the female hairs recovered on Waterman and Costello are derived from a person genetically identical to the SNP Genotype files of members of Heuermann's family, specifically Asa Ellerup and Victoria Heuermann, the report said. Because they were away and out of state at the time of the murders, it "provides further support that Rex A. Heuermann murdered, restrained and transported the remains of the victims to Gilgo Beach until they were ultimately discovered in December 2010, the report said


A male hair found on Waterman was also linked to Heuermann, according to the report.


His attorney Michael Brown said Heuermann pleaded not guilty; Heuermann will next appear in court on Feb. 6.

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Should new charges be filed, identification of Peaches, her toddler daughter or of the Asian male be announced, or any other Breaking News occur during the coming month, be assured it will be reported in the next update on Armchair Genealogy.


Stay tuned

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Maureen L. DuCharme Brainard-Barnes
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A very young Maureen L. DuCharme Brainard-Barnes (from the memorial established in her memory on Find-A-Grave website)

Maureen L. Ducharme Brainard-Barnes
BIRTH: 14 Jun 1982
New London, New London County, Connecticut, USA

DEATH: Age 25 (Date believed killed between Jul 9, 2007 and Jul 12, 2007) on or near Massapequa, Long Island, New York
her remains found) 13 Dec 2010 (aged 28)
Gilgo Beach, Suffolk County, New York, USA

BURIAL: Saint Marys Cemetery
Norwich, New London County, Connecticut, USA

MEMORIAL ID: 64693289

From Find-A-Grave memorial

She was 25.

She had been last seen on July 9, 2007. Death date above is the date her body was found. Actual date is not known.

Cause of death: murdered, remains found with 3 other women, police are searching for a serial killer.

A suspect was arrested in July 2023, with DNA match evidence, and is connected to the other 3 girls found with her.



Cemetery info provided by (#48452907)

Below provided by (49259303)

Maureen Brainard-Barnes, 28, formerly of Norwich, died Dec. 13, 2010, in Babylon, N.Y.

She was born June 14, 1982, in New London, the daughter of Marie Ducharme of Groton and the late Robert Senecal. She was formerly employed at Foxwood's Resort & Casino as a dealer.

Besides her mother she is survived by two children, Nicolette Brainard-Barnes of Mystic and Dylan Haggett of Norwich; a sister, Melissa Vieu of New London; a half-sister, Bryona Senecal; and several nieces, nephews, and cousins.

She was predeceased by a brother, William Vieu Jr.

Her family received relatives and friends at the Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home in New London.

A funeral service was held. Interment followed in St. Mary Cemetery.

Published in The Day on Feb. 2, 2011

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Cooking with Rod

 

By Rod Cohenour

While living in Ahwatukee, an upscale suburb of Phoenix, Melinda and I often visited the Havana Cafe in a local shopping center. This was one of three Havana Cafe locations operated by BJ Hernandez and her late husband, Gilbert.


BJ Hernandez and Gilbert opened their original Havana Cafe on Camelback Road in east Phoenix in 1989. It eventually was joined by others in north Scottsdale and Ahwatukee.


The Ahwatukee location closed in 2011, followed by the Phoenix one in 2014 and the Scottsdale one in 2015.


The food was divine, the cafe a small jewel of classy yet simple decor, the ambiance enchanting.


My Miss M always planned to try the full menu, but then would order the Pollo Cubano with Cuban Black Beans, rice, and the delicious plantains which she said perfectly complemented the chicken dish.


Just before closing her Havana Cafe restaurants, BJ Hernandez gifted her long-time customers with her recipe shared online for the Pollo Cubano which is now shared here.


Included are recipes M has created to approximate the sides she so loved to order with her favorite dish.


These recipes are delectable, not that complicated to prepare, but worth every moment to grace your table with this exotic cuisine.


Enjoy A Cuban Adventure.


Bon appetit ~!

Havana CafĂ©’s Pollo Cubano



When BJ Hernandez, chef and owner of the three Havana Cafe locations in the Valley, started making this recipe, it was only because it was a special she created for her guests. Now, it's her most popular dish at the restaurants and has found a permanent home on the menu.


Part of its appeal is its use of citrusy flavors on the chicken. The recipe uses bitter orange seasoning, made with orange and lime juices, as well as garlic, salt and cumin to create a rich combination of tastes.


Here's how to make it:

Pollo Cubano


Serves 4

  • 2 pounds boneless breast of chicken
  • 1 1/4 pound Spanish onions (or yellow onions) sliced medium thickness
  • 1/2 cup orange juice
  • 1/8 cup fresh lime juice
  • 2 tablespoons olive oil


Marinade:

  • 3/4 cup orange juice
  • 1/4 cup lime juice
  • 1 tablespoon granulated garlic
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 1 teaspoon cumin
  • 1 teaspoon hot sauce
  • 1/8 cup olive oil

    Mix marinade ingredients together. Place chicken breasts in a glass, plastic, stainless steel bowl or zip lock gallon bag. Pour marinade over chicken and marinate 3 hours or overnight, refrigerated.


    In a large frying pan, heat olive oil to very hot. Add chicken breasts. Do not turn over or move until first side is very brown. Turn over and add onions and juice. Move onions around to brown cook for 8-10 minutes more. Serve with white rice and black beans. There should be juices left in the pan. Pour them over the chicken breasts topped with the onions.

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    Ms Cuban Black Beans

    Ingredients:

      * 1 cup Ms Sofrito (OPTIONAL OR USE FOLLOWING VEGGIES AND SPICES down through Oregano). This is a timesaving option if you have previously made and frozen or stored the sofrito)


      Ms Sofrito recipe link here: Ms Caribbean Sofrito

      * 1 small purple onion, finely diced, tough outer layer removed
      * 1/2 green bell pepper, finely diced
      * 1/2 red bell pepper, finely diced
      * 1 small fresh jalapeno, seeds and stem removed, finely diced (can substitute 1 Tbsp. Pickled Jalapeno if desired, no juice, or an equivalent small section of poblano pepper, finely diced)
      * 1 tsp. Minced garlic (much preferred rather than powdered or granulated garlic)
      * 1 Tbsp. Olive or Avocado oil
      * 1 tsp. Cumin
      * 1 tsp. Dried Oregano
      * 3 (three) 15 oz. cans Black Beans, liquid included
      * 1/2 cup frozen orange juice concentrate (thawed)
      * Juice of one lime

    Instructions:

    (If desired, prepare beans day before and allow flavors to blend over night. Add lime juice after reheating and just before serving)

      1. Prepare onion and peppers and assemble garlic, oil, and spices for quick sauté.
      2. Preheat skillet and add oil. When hot add onion and all peppers and stir over medium high heat until onion is translucent.
      3. Add minced garlic, cumin, and dried oregano. Stir to combine well.
      4. Add canned black beans. If cans contain too much liquid, drain one can. Add orange juice concentrate. Stir well. Lower heat and allow to simmer, stirring often to prevent scorching. You may wish to allow time to cook off some of the liquid and intensify the flavor.
      5. Just before serving add lime juice. This sparks a fresh flavor.

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    Ms CILANTRO-LIME RICE

    Ingredients:

      • 8 cups chicken broth (add water, if necessary, to broth to make an even 8 cups)
      • 4 cups white long-grain rice
      • Lime juice (best to use the little lime filled with juice found in the Produce Department
      • Cilantro, washed, dried, bulk of stems cut off and leaves and top stems chopped roughly.


    Instructions:

    Prepare rice per manufacturer’s instructions (usually heat broth/water to boiling, add rice, stir, lower heat, cook about 5 minutes.) Turn heat off and permit to sit for 30 minutes, until liquid is absorbed and rice is cooked tender. Add lime juice and a goodly amount of the cilantro (to taste).

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    Ms Platanos Maduros Cubano

    NOTE: Do not prepare until ready to plate and serve the meal. Platanos Maduros (sweet ripe fried/grilled plantains) do not keep well and should be served within minutes of preparation.)

    Ingredients:

      * 3 large ripe plantains (full yellow peel with numerous black spots to fully black but not yet soft indicates a ripe and sweet plantain)
      * Small bowl of cold water (for cut plantains to keep from turning before frying)
      * 1/2 cup orange juice concentrate
      * 1/4 cup brown sugar
      * 1/2 - 3/4 cup oil (coconut, olive, avocado or corn oil will do)

    Instructions:

      1. Prepare plantains. Cut off each end of fruit. Then carefully slice peel lengthwise top to bottom. Remove peel.

      Slice plantains on a diagonal, each slice at least 1/2" thick. (You may choose to slice each fruit in planks, top to bottom OR in rounds. In my opinion, the best result is the thick diagonal cut. Always ensure each slice is at least 1/2" thick however for best result.)

      Place plantain slices in bowl of cold water to soak while skillet of oil is ready for use.

      2. Put thawed orange juice concentrate in a separate bowl. Put brown sugar in another bowl. (If desired, a small measure of chili powder can be sprinkled in).

      3. Preheat skillet and oil. Oil should be hot enough to sizzle when plantain slice is added.

      4. Using tongs remove plantain slice from cold water, shaking slightly to further remove vestiges of water. Dip slice first in orange juice then brown sugar, turning to coat both sides.

      Carefully add to hot oil, so that no oil splashes to burn the cook or the counter.

      Repeat until skillet is full of slices but not crowding plantain slices. You may need to fry in batches.

      5. When bottom of plantain is beautifully browned (about 2-3 minutes depending on your skillet and stove), turn to permit equal browning on reverse side.

      6. Remove browned slices, one at a time to a platter fitted with paper toweling. Use a second sheet to dab any excess grease from the top.

      The perfect Platano Maduros will be slightly crispy on its edges but soft and creamy and sweet on the inside.

      7. Serve Platanos Maduros hot, best within five (5) minutes of browning.


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Woo Woo

 


By Pauline Evanosky

You’re Probably More Psychic Than You Think

You say: So, am I psychic or not?


I say: Well, you are an ordinary person, so I would say, yes, you are psychic.


You respond heatedly: I don’t think I am psychic. I’ve never had an experience with the supernatural, except when I thought I saw a ghost.


Ah, I say: When was that?


You say, “Oh, it happened a couple of years ago, and it’s never happened since then.


I say: Well, tell me about it.


You say: It was after a family gathering. It was Thanksgiving one year. We were gathered at Aunt Phyliss’ place. They’d brought out the photograph albums, and everybody was sharing stories. We did it every year. This was no different than any other year at Thanksgiving.


I say: So, nothing out of the ordinary?


You say: Nope.


I say: So, when did this sighting of yours happen?


You say: It was after everybody had gone home. Some of us were sleeping over. I was on the couch in the basement—the one in the rec room. There were two other people with me. They had sleeping bags. It was about 2 in the morning, and I woke up. They always kept a night light on in the bathroom, and the light spilled over into the room we were in. I saw something. It looked like Uncle Beau. Except, he’d been dead for five years. But I saw a guy with really frizzy white hair like he used to have.


I say: What was he doing?


You say: He was just standing there. He wasn’t doing anything. I squeezed my eyes shut and opened them again. I figured he’d be gone. He wasn’t. He was still there. I squeezed my eyes shut again. Then, he was gone. I wasn’t afraid. I’d just seen a guy. In the morning, neither of the folks sleeping down there with me said anything. I was still so freaked out about it I didn’t say anything.


Later that morning, after we’d had breakfast and were into a second cup of coffee, I found myself alone in the kitchen with Aunt Phyllis. I told her what had happened. She said that wasn’t the first time something like that had happened. She’d seen her dead husband down there several times. She wasn’t afraid either. She said what I’d seen was true.


Then, she went on to tell me that she could see things sometimes. I asked her what she meant. She said sometimes, when she’s doing stuff that doesn’t require her full attention, like washing the dishes or doing laundry, she will get this fast image. Like she’ll see a lot of red. Nothing in particular, just the color red. A day later, there is a train accident on the news with lots of people injured. Other times, she will see green. That’s when she’ll notice new stuff coming up in the garden later on. Personally? I think it is all a coincidence. I mean, how can anyone see the future? Just with colors?


So, no. I don’t think I am psychic.


I say: I think you are. Everybody is, to one degree or another. Think of it as a sense. Remember from when we were kids? It’s your sixth sense, just as ordinary as being able to see or hear. Don’t be afraid of it. It’s just a sense. There’s not a whole lot written about it, and it’s unusual in the sense that nobody really talks about it much. It’s like when you were a kid. Your parents never taught you to hear. You just did. The same thing happened with you seeing. One day, you saw. You didn’t know what you were looking at because you hadn’t learned words yet. But I’ll bet if you wanted your dolly or teddy bear, you knew what you were looking at even though you didn’t have a name for it.


The thing is, there are probably other things that are happening with you just because you are connected in a way you’ve never really thought about. Like how you might think of somebody, and three hours later or the next day, they call you. Did you make that happen by thinking of them, or were you getting a heads-up about them thinking about you? Years ago, I used to have fun at work by announcing when my boss was going to be the one on the phone. It happened enough times that people started looking at me funny. Turns out I was just dialed into him, I suppose.


It's like being able to draw. When you first learn how to draw, it’s all just wrong. The lines are wonky, and it does not look like a cat more than it resembles a hedgehog. Eventually, with enough practice, the things you draw begin to look like something. The real test is when you do faces, I think. When the face resembles the subject, that’s when you can tell you are getting to be a better artist. It just takes practice.


The same thing happens when you awaken to your own psychic self. It’s strange at first, but if you are not afraid of it and treat it more like a game, it will happen more often because you are not pushing it away.


Just relax about it. Invite it into your life. Play games with it, and someday, you’ll be able to pick winning lottery numbers. I’m just kidding about that. The only winning lottery numbers I ever picked were for a different state. It was eerie enough when it happened. As I look back on it, I think it was just a little twinkle and nod from the psychic side of life.


So, yes, you are psychic.


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Sifoddling Along

 

By Marilyn Carnell

Meeting The Family

I was a 47-year-old divorcee and had been single for ten years when I began working at Campbell’s Soup and met Al Williams. We found we had many interests in common and developed an easy friendship. We shared the same profession – food science, had adult sons, collected art, and loved to travel. He was impressed that I owned an IBM computer. I was impressed that he invited me to attend an opera for our first date.


We also had differences. He was an introvert; I was an extrovert. His parents were successful business owners in Sacramento, California and his grandparents owned a ranch in Silicon Valley. I was a purebred hillbilly from the Ozarks of Missouri. He had lived in Portugal and traveled in Europe; I had never left American soil.


We decided to marry in 1988 and I thought it necessary to introduce him to my family before we took that important step.. Part of my reasoning was courtesy to my family, but underneath I thought it was important that he have an opportunity to get to meet them. He might want to back out.


We planned our trip carefully. We would confine the visit to one long day. Wearing, but avoiding any concerns about who would sleep where in my parent's home.


“What kind of car shall I rent?” Al said.


“I’m not particular. Get something mid-size and bland. We don’t want to look like show-offs.”


When we arrived in Kansas City, the rental agent said, “I have good news. You have been upgraded. Your car is parked at the curb.”


Through the window, we could see a bright yellow Cadillac. This was not a good sign for our mission. Nevertheless, accepted the upgrade and journeyed south in our sunny car to Pineville, Missouri.


We arrived at my hometown about 3 hours later and I slid low in the passenger seat in hopes that we would not pass anyone I knew.


If Al expected a quiet visit with my parents, he was sadly mistaken. It seemed my entire family had come to see the man I had chosen. They were circled in the packed living room to observe Al. I hadn’t seen some of them for years. They were there to pass judgment on my choice of husband. After all, they hadn’t had a vote on the first one.


We sat across from my father, the patriarch of the clan, and I fielded questions about our intentions. I was delighted to see everyone and chatted blithely – it was fun to see my cousins, aunts, and uncles gathered around me. I left Al to sink or swim in the attention of a bunch of total strangers.


The room was so crowded that multiple conversations soon broke out. Al sat next to my sister’s husband who was full of inquiries, but fortunately, answered them himself.


“What airport did you fly into?” Kansas City I suppose,” Will said. “Did you have a good flight? Was it a Boeing 737? “


“Those Boing 737s are nice planes; usually a very smooth ride.”


Al quickly realized that all he had to do was nod and smile. He liked that as he was not comfortable being the center of attention.


After an hour or so, we announced that we had to go if we were to be at the airport on time and made a hasty departure taking with us the blessings of my family. No one commented on our gaudy car. We arrived at the Philadelphia Airport about 10 p.m. that night. Mission accomplished.


We were married in the City Hall of Haddonfield, N.J. on July 14, 1988, and spent the next 31 years together. Al passed away on July 15, 2019. Like our trip to meet the family, our life together was an interesting journey.


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