Monday, December 1, 2025

Editor's Corner

 


By Mary E. Adair

“You can tell a lot about a person
by the way they handle three things:
a rainy day, lost luggage,
and tangled Christmas tree lights.”
— Maya Angelou

Hello to December 2025

November had a few weather tantrums here and there around the United States although all were not affected. Heavy rain in some states caused many kinds of delays but the snow during the last week was surprisingly heavy for the first of the winter season. Our own town had only welcomed precipitation of the unfrozen variety.


In a similar manner, very scant or contrarily prolific compositions arrived. One tends to be concerned for the health of authors when they aren't submitting as usual. My hope is always that there has been happy or serendipitous reasons for delays, and we have ended up with a nicely varied content for this issue.

My own poem for December is one that has become like a tradition to show at Christmas, "Tiny Miracle." The nostalgic poem "Love is God's Gift" composed by my mother on the night my father proposed to her, is a personal favorite. Two timely poems, "Harbor Tower Christmas - 2005" and "The Gift of Christmas" by Bud Lemire are included.


John I. Blair, who recently had serious surgery and is due for more this month graciously permitted my four choices of his previously published poetry. They are "The Holly As Tall As The House," "Speaking," "Confession," and "Golden Days."


Walt Perryman's four poems this month are "There’s Not a Day That’s Just Another Day!!," "Something to Think about As You Age!," "Watching TV or Not!!!," and "My First Rough Necking Job!" A special treat is having the Article show Walt's "Honey Dog Tales" number 7 plus all the pics of Honey shown during the series. (All can be found as Stories in his list of published work, below his bio, accessible by clicking his byline.)


"On Trek" by Judith Kroll also shows two of her poems. Marilyn Carnell is settling into her new living arrangement and looking toward new ideas in "Sifoddling Along." "Introspection" shows author Thomas F. O'Neill ready for the Yuletide season.


"Cooking with Rod's Family" features a Breakfast Casserole ideal for company Holiday visits. Melinda Cohenour and granddaughter Erin give all the directions and tips for success. Pauline Evanosky discusses a different way to view Progress, in her column "Woo Woo." Our Dublin, Ireland columnist Mattie Lennon reviews two new books he refers to as seasonal in his "Irish Eyes."


Melinda Cohenour's "Armchair Genealogy" displays a story such as can be included in family tree records these days with the expanded capabilities of websites like Ancestry. This her own such story.


Our co-founder and webmaster Michael Craner muses about preparing for Christmas time in his column "Mike's Place." This is a busy season for him and his family as they participate in  area activities. We appreciate him as a long time friend (like family) and all he handles keeping our International eZine going.

Next issue for January is already simmering with ideas. See you then!


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Mike's Place

 

By Michael L. Craner

Yeah I get it... Christmas in November, will this guy ever shut up? It's especially harder this year with prices being higher than ever...


But I don't, nor have I ever suggested spending a lot of money for Christmas. Obviously we have to sometimes for the little ones...


For me the best gifts are homemade, made from the heart, ornaments and decorations as well.


The real gift is spending time with loved ones. Talking, baking, cooking, and crafting those gifts.


This is something everyone can do. Even if you don't have a family, you can make one for the holidays.


Aside from the religious meanings and remembrances, this is a time to celebrate harvests, and good will towards others. Christmas is NOT just a day to dump hundreds or thousands of dollars in gifts to loved ones. It's a full season of doing good and kind things for those in need.


So yeah, it's still November.


Merry Christmas!


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Armchair Genealogy

 

By Melinda Cohenour

Following the theme of documenting my own stories as I near the zenith of life, I've chosen to relate this story which ties together so many threads of the fabric of my memories. Places, people, music - themes intertwined. I've long held a belief that one of God's 'mysterious ways' includes His way of introducing folks who will have an impact (great or small but there, nonetheless) on our life. In my theory, the first moment a person enters your consciousness - that first moment of awareness, maybe a lingering glance, perhaps something elusive that grabs your attention whatever form it takes - that initial awareness foretells a future interaction or even INTERWOVEN chains of events. The longer the glance or the greater the initial impact, the more complex will be your future shared HAPPENINGS. I will revisit this belief hopefully in a future column because there have been a few amazing such miracles in my long life. Such is the story of Bob Brunson and the Rubaiyat and our complex friendship through the years. Recently Bob and I shared internet stories about that well-loved place and time in our lives. Bob wrote back with what I believe to be the epic summation of that moment in time:

"The article captures the essence, (a bit hyperbolic) Nevertheless, to some degree we all knew we were watching music history being made. It was the proverbial lightning in a bottle, and sadly, won't be repeated. Luckily, we got to watch some of it happen."


The Rubaiyat, Dallas, Texas.


(My personal Magic Carpet)

My dear friend Bob Brunson introduced me to the Rubaiyat in the very early 1970's or perhaps even 1969. Bob had been in a recently ended long-term romantic relationship with a lovely young lady and they had maintained a good friendship. She was at that time engaged to an old friend of mine from Monahans High School - Ray Pope. Ray's daddy was one of our football coaches. It was a serendipitous event when my sister Noralee and a girlfriend of mine joined me for burgers at Adair's, a very popular hole-in-the-wall hangout in Dallas, originally located on Cedar Springs. (Adair's history in link at end of column). We were laughing and joking with a table of guys near us who asked where in the world we got our deep Texas drawl. My response, "Out in a little piece of Heaven in the Sandhills named Monahans!" From somewhere in the huge crowd was heard, "Did I hear MONAHANS? WHERE ARE YOU MONAHANS!" It was Ray Pope. We shared our table with Ray, said our Hellos and exchanged phone numbers and that began a High School reunion of sorts as Ray and I shared our Monahans alumni pals' Dallas info. Soon Ray introduced me to his girlfriend and they decided I had to meet Bob Brunson. What a wonderful friend Bob became. A dear, funny, talented, caring, beloved friend for life.


Bob told me the best music venue in Dallas (and maybe in the world) was The Rubaiyat. He promptly took me to see a favorite of his, Mike Williams (Is There a Heaven for Balloons?)

The Story of the Rubaiyat may be read by clicking the link below this column.


There I saw Steve Martin, before he was a name, do his comic skits including the phone monologue and the arrow through the head bit. Who could possibly know decades later Steve and my phenomenally talented sister-in-law Patti Cohenour would become friends and even share a marquee. Patti was cast in the premiere production of the musical Bright Star which Steve Martin co-created with Edie Brickell. This collaboration capped a long-time friendship with Steve.


Patti was the first alternate to Lady Sarah Brightman when "Phantom of the Opera" burst upon Broadway to worldwide acclaim and her arias were valued over even Ms. Brightman's by many critics. Patti performed the lead when Phantom played in Canada as well as in London where the musical was viewed by the Queen of England. This was but one of Patti's starring roles on Broadway albeit, undoubtedly, the most famous.


Also at the Rubaiyat I became acquainted with Michael Martin Murphy (way before he had to add Martin as his middle name because professionally ASCAP already had an acting member named Michael Murphy), Ray Wylie Hubbard ... Three Faces West, both Dan McCrimmon and Steve Fromholz of Frummox (each of whom would later be separately named Poet Laureate by the State of Texas), B. W. Stevenson (my personal nickname for my "lil brother" was Chuckles, which he pretended to hate but secretly loved. We became close friends. He turned to me for advice when Steve McQueen happened to show up on a motorcycle at the little Austin club where he was playing and wanted to sign him to do the music for his next film, The Getaway. Sweet BW thought I knew everything, bless his heart. I deeply appreciated his friendship but when he called, I, of course, advised him to get a good lawyer and to protect his publication interests.)


(Another side story of interest here: I first met B. W. and his harmonica playing friend Michael Siegfried Raphael playing together informally at the Rubaiyat. They were former high school buddies. Michael Raphael (who always went by Mickey and we nicknamed "Mickey Mouth,") would later join Willie Nelson's band and make musical history. There's hardly a recording artist or group that hasn't shared their stage or recording studio with Mickey Raphael, rock, jazz, folk, country.... he's played for all musical genres! Along the way, Mickey Raphael would meet Ali MacGraw who was divorced from Steve McQueen. Mickey and Ali never married but shared many years happily together. (More about Mickey "Mouth" Raphael at the link below column.)


He also told me as we sat outside the apartments managed by Allen Damron that his late father had come to him the night before, sat on his chest and told him to wake up as he had to tell him something important.


Then Chuckles said, "Daddy says I'll never see 39. I'm gonna die at 38 of an infected heart."


He did - following open heart surgery a staph infection of his heart culminated in his death.


(Allen Damron became another lifelong friend. I cherish our last email exchanges during his last years in Terlingua before his death in 2005. I've included a link to his biographical information below.)


I just located an old post in Facebook that included a comment of mine memorializing some of the very memories I've mentioned in this column (shared in next paragraphs):

"Frummox", Jerry Jeff Walker, Michael Martin Murphy, B W Stevenson and Mickey "Mouth" Raphael (fresh from high school and a team at that time before Willie Nelson discovered the incredible harmonica talent of Mickey), Three Faces West, Russ Kirkpatrick, marvelous entertainment from the '60's and '70's appeared there. What wonderful memories.


A sweet gem that appeared below this of mine posted Aug 9, 2016, was a comment made by my dear, dear friend Angela Blair (elder sister and best friend, manager, strongest supporter and essential organizer and marketing pro of Steve Fromholz). Angela wrote: "Those were the days my friend!" to which I replied: "Feeling a bit nostalgic today, Sis. Oh! To relive those days, complete with all our beloved friends and family."


My long-term relationship with Steve Fromholz began with the first time I heard Frummox ... Steve introduced himself after the first set. We made the after hours circuit that evening, the first of many many years of memorable times that evolved from that first night together. Steve and Travis Holland and a few more band members crashed at my apartment once when rooms in Dallas simply could not be obtained due to some huge convention. The guys, as usual, engaged in an impromptu jam. They firmed up some lyrics of Everybody's Going On The Road and started a couple of new song ideas. (I'd be remiss if I failed to provide a link or so to Steve performing a few of his songs. See below)


Travis Holland was a very cherished friend of Steve's. Steve credited Travis with teaching him how to "really play" guitar. Travis was the master of deadpan, low-key humor (or was it just Travis being Travis?) Steve told of them going to a restaurant whose claim to fame was a menu full of egg dishes: Benedict, scrambled, omelettes galore, fried sunny side up or over easy or laced. Waitress asks Travis "And how do you like your eggs sir?"
Travis: "Jes fine, ma'am, jes fine.'


My favorites of all Steve's songs are "Song for Steven Sills" and his famed incredible Texas Trilogy. Follow the links to hear him perform these songs.
I still mourn his loss.


So many of these friends have passed beyond the veil; but my memories of so many, many shared moments will live on bringing light and love and music and laughter into my days.


Penned with love.


Links to introduce you to my friends and world during those early adult years whose memories enrich my life to this day.

    The Rubaiyat:
     The Story of the Rubaiyat Club, the Birthplace of Texas Music - D Magazine
    scattershooting: the RubaiyatThis second link mentions Russ Kirkpatrick who actually wrote a song about a shared memory of a prior life we believe we shared along with Bill Moss (fabulous black folk singer who actually saved my life once ... for another memory one day). Russ and I dated awhile...
    scattershooting: the Rubaiyat
    History: Adair's Saloon
     Adair's Saloon
    Mickey Raphael Actually Played Iconic Harmonica Solo on Motley Crue’s “Smokin’ In The Boys Room” here:
     “Smokin’ In The Boys Room” - Saving Country Music
    More about Mickey "Mouth" Raphael here:
    Mickey Raphael - Wikipedia

                    B. W. "Buckwheat" Stevenson

      A Live Performance video:

 

    His story:B. W. Stevenson - Wikipedia
    B. W. Stevenson - Wikipedia
    Stevenson, Louis Charles \[Buckwheat, B.W.]
    Stevenson, Louis Charles [Buckwheat, B.W.]
    Very nostalgic video:BW on stage when Steve Fromholz, Rusty Wier, and Mickey Mouth Raphael drop in for a rousing, crazy unrehearsed performance. Today only Mickey Raphael is still here. We have lost BW, Steve and Rusty ... Three of my crazy, sweet, talented, fun loving friends. Not the most polished but certainly one of my treasures videos.
    BW on stage when Steve Fromholz, Rusty Wier, and Mickey Mouth Raphael drop in for a rousing, crazy unrehearsed performance.
    And can't leave out this one. Five of BW's best songs
    Five of BW's best songs
    Allen Damron
     Damron, Allen Wayne
    Steven Fromholz - Wikipedia
    Steven Fromholz - Wikipedia
    Instagram share by a fan who wrote:
    Willie's mid-70s recording of his "I'd Have to be Crazy" bought Lamborghinis for Steve's grandkids, and made it OK -- albeit, sad -- that most of the rest of the world never caught on to how great he was. He has the Texas Trilogy already but I thought this would be another nice triple take on his genius. ((Usual small-print: All rights reserved by Steve, his publishers and his record companies. I am making no attempt to derive $$$ benefit from posting this, only trying to introduce others to what some of us already know, and maybe even make the poor guy a few more bucks for all the joy he's given us.)

    Instagram share by a fan
    Frummox(Steve Fromholz and Dan MacCrimmon) performing Man With the Big Hato. Steve when I first met him.
    Frummox(Steve Fromholz and Dan MacCrimmon) performing Man With the Big Hato
    Frummox: Here to There, 1969 feat.
    Frummox: Here to There, 1969


Attachments Area:


Preview YouTube video B.W. Stevenson and Friends (Live) 1974 - Ritz Theatre, Corpus Christi, TXPreview YouTube video B.W. Stevenson and Friends (Live) 1974 - Ritz Theatre, Corpus Christi, TX


Preview YouTube video 5x B. W. Stevenson ( The Best Of Internacional Music )Preview YouTube video 5x B. W. Stevenson ( The Best Of Internacional Music )


Preview YouTube video Steve Fromholz -- Road, Bears, Alone trilogy.wmvPreview YouTube video Steve Fromholz -- Road, Bears, Alone trilogy.wmv


Preview YouTube video Frummox - Man With The Big Hat \[1969]


Preview YouTube video Frummox - Man With The Big Hat \[1969]


Preview YouTube video Frummox - Here to There (1969) - feat. Steven Fromholz and Dan McCrimmonPreview YouTube video Frummox - Here to There (1969) - feat. Steven Fromholz and Dan McCrimmon


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Irish Eyes

 

By Mattie Lennon

Two Worthwhile Seasonal Reads

Born and reared in Townsend Street Dublin in 1908, N.P. Kennedy witnessed first-hand the events leading to Irish freedom in the first decades of the last century. So did Sean O’Casey but he wrote plays about it. Did Kennedy write anything?


After his death in 1978 His daughter Ailis, who found the manuscript of The Tragic Isle, says, "This spans some of the recruitment of World War 1 veterans as auxiliaries to the RIC (the infamous Black and Tans), through the rebel resistance, the post- treaty Civil War and final declaration of peace. It is a story of civil and personal conflict, of love and despair plus courage and commitment. The book is a valuable legacy for our family, which we would like to share with you."


The author himself lived through and suffered because of the turbulence of those troubled times portrayed in the book. His parents were obliged to close their shop in Townsend Street because of it.


The main character, a British Army WWI veteran, Bernard Thompson, like many survivors of that terrible conflict, finds himself down and out on the streets of London, jobless, hungry and homeless. He is given an opportunity to “serve in Ireland”. The details of his posting were scant and untruthful. He found himself operating as an auxiliary to the Royal Irish Constabulary (RIC) during Ireland’s War of Independence and was disheartened and appalled by the actions of his fellow “recruits.” He is left for dead after his patrol is ambushed and he is rescued by the same rebel forces that he is expected to suppress. Bernard is brought to a rebel household, where he is brought to, and slowly regains his health. As he recovers, he acquires an understanding of the situation and can see things clearly from the rebels’ viewpoint and becomes sympathetic to their cause. From his first day in Ireland he was aware of how he was misled as to the role to which he had been enlisted.


Bernard Thompson is eventually trusted by the rebels, joins them, and becomes one of “the men who fought the Auxies and beat the Black and Tan”, and later during the Civil War he is told, “My God, Thompson! If only our own flesh and blood had stood by the country as you have done, we'd have won outright by now.”


The Tragic Isle is a historical novel and Bernard Thompson is a fictional character who, like many of the other people portrayed, fits the profile of people on both sides.


The events also are merely transplanted from real conflict with names of people and places given different names. The reprisals of Balbriggan in county Dublin are faithfully based on real atrocities.


Thanks to The Manuscript Publisher, Ailis Kennedy and her family we are able to get this well written and informative work of historical reading, and it’s available online.

* * * * * *


Jarrah Regan is a legend in comedy circles and around the world. He was the auditor of the Literary and Historical Society in UCD when he was a student there.


His stand-up comedy career started in 2003 and a year later he was a finalist for three major UK comedy newcomer awards: So You Think You’re Funny, BBC New Comedy Awards, and the Chortle Student Comedian of the Year. Then in 2006, he performed as part of the first ever Irish gala at the Just for Laughs festival in Montreal, Canada. Regan's shows have included 2007's Edinburgh Fringe show "Nobody Knows..." Jarlath Regan", 2018/19's "Organ Freeman", which chronicled his experience as a live-organ donor, and 2019/2020's "Notion's Eleven", which was recorded in Vicar Street for online release in late 2020.


Regan wrote and performed sketches on Scope, an Irish science television programme for teenagers and was a regular panellist during the 2008–2009 season of The Panel. In 2010, he co-presented The Rumour Room, a teen entertainment series part of TRTÉ on RTÉ Two television.


The Gobshite, The horsey set in the plains of Kildare, may not be all that impressed by his account of his native heath: "I always call the Curragh Ireland's desert, because it's so flat, green, vast, and isolated. A lot of my memories are of being on my bike and cycling into a gale force wind attempting to get to Newbridge to see my friends.” The latest string to his bow will make us all proud of him. I was on a committee once and my function was to deal with the media. I called myself "The Gobshite in charge of Bullshit." I was joking, or thought I was. But it seems I wasn’t. In Regan’s hardback recently published, "The Gobshite Guidebook," I won’t admit how many of the 28 pieces in the 183 pages in which I am described. From Celebrity Goshutes, to Gob Shiites in Relationships, to How Goshutes React in Emergencies, it’s all there. This is a funny book written by a very funny man but it contains some very sound serious advice. For instance how to Spot When a Gobshite Is Lying; Seven of the most commonly used Gobshite lies:

    1. ‘It was like that when I got here.’
    2. ‘I heard about a guy who had a similar problem.’
    3. ‘There seemed to be a bit of confusion/nobody was clear on that.’
    4. ’I tried but they wouldn’t let me. I swear.’
    5. ‘I was just thinking the same thing.’
    6. ‘Will you relax? I definitely checked before I left.’


Some of you have been reading my column for more than twenty years and no doubt many of you thought that I was a Gobshite. Well, thanks to Jarlath Regan I’m in a position to tell you that you were right.


If you have a friend who is a Gobshite give them "The Gobshite Guidebook for Christmas" and allow them to see themselves as others see them. And there are others who you are not sure if they fit the profile. It is an ideal present for them also. Details at;www.gillbooks.ie


HAPPY CHRISTMAS.


I'll see you next year!


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Woo Woo

 

By Pauline Evanosky

Where Progress Is a Tree

I like being in a place where it happens occasionally that I realize things. Specifically, I realize things in a burst. Not a slow coming to a conclusion sort of thing that might take me months to do. A sudden insight. This time, I realized that progress was not a straight shot. It wasn’t upward. It wasn’t sideways. There was nothing straight about it.


I realized progress for me looked like a tree. The beginning, of course, was a seed, a shoot, a sprout. As your resolve and attention focus, tiny roots move through the dirt. You have a teacher or a tutor (could even be YouTube) who instructs you in the way they perceive progress. That’s okay. You need some first steps.


At some point, you remove the training wheels, and you go off cycling on your own. This is where your progress starts acting like a tree. It moves. It is alive. And tiny branches begin to form. Yes, maybe it is only a branch at a time, but then you get to a point where your branches have branches and leaves are sprouting all over the tree.


This is progress.


You move at your own pace. I don’t know why I never realized this. And now that I know? I think I can relax a little bit. I don’t need to worry if I’m on the right track. I can be assured that I actually know where I’m going, even if the end dances around on the horizon like a mirage.


Another thing I have to school myself on is my expectation of where progress takes me.


As a writer, I envision that my books will eventually be published. This is where my magical mind expects Prince Publisher to drop out of the sky with my shoe in hand. What I have to remind myself is to believe in the magic of manifestation and to send out prayers to enlist the help of whoever it might turn out to be to help me through the minefield of publishing.


I’m not sure why I just called it a minefield. I can imagine at this point what earth torn and mounded on a battlefield looks like easier than I can imagine what publishing is going to be like.


Okay, I admit. It is fear that is standing in the way. Fear only delays progress. Does a tree fear? I doubt it. Even with flames licking around its trunk, I don’t think a tree fears. That’s how they figured out the baby sequoias in Yosemite grew. It was through the heat of forest fires. The forest rangers had not known that. They’d been trying for years to get new sequoias to grow. It wasn’t until they instituted a program of prescribed burns, just as the Native Americans had done for thousands of years, in the 1960s, that new trees began to grow and to protect and cultivate the land.


As a psychic, I can only imagine what a tree feels. It would take more than what I can do now to experience that, though I can tell you it is possible. The closest I can get is when my houseplants are thirsty. It isn’t a panicky or a negative feeling. They are thirsty. I understand.


Thanks for reading.
Pauline Evanosky


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