Wednesday, January 1, 2025

Editor's Corner

January 2025








           Mary E. Adair


“The only limit to our realization of tomorrow
is our doubts of today.”
– Franklin D. Roosevelt


We had a lovely trip to the North Texas area late in October for the wedding of a Great-Grandson to his preacher's daughter. We were home by the end of the first week of November to discover the new dilemma.


Still experiencing difficulty (make that impossibility) when we attempt including pictures. Our webmaster is the one to solve such problems, and will have a solution. Meanwhile not all the pics chosen for publishing are being done. Check out the column by Mike Craner , who becomes a jolly Santa during Christmas season.


Marilyn Carnell talks about refreshing one of her crafting hobbies in January's "Sifoddling Along" column. Thomas F. O'Neill greets everyone in a cheery New Year exuberance in "Introspective."


Mattie Lennon's column "Irish Eyes" as an avid reader-reviewer himself urges that his choices be included with your own. His column "Irish Eyes" expounds on the author of Tales of A Patchwork Life, Brighid McLaughlin. Pauline Evanosky discloses "Aspects of My Psychic Life" in her column "Woo Woo."


Judith Kroll's column "On Trek" repeats her discussion about "waking up" to what is controlling your life. "Armchair Genealogy" by columnist Melinda Cohenour has a few updates on the use of investigative forensics using DNA. "Cooking with Rod's Family" presents granddaughter Erin's recipes this issue.


John I. Blair's new poem this month, "Sometimes" is a loving, sentimental remembrance of Clara, his late wife. Two of his favorite poems "Looking for Spring" and "Step by Step" appear as encores. Walt Perryman's poems are "Merry Christmas - Tree?", "Christmas Eve in Texas," "'Tis The Day After Christmas," and "Wishing Everyone A Happy New Year." Bud Lemire's poems are "Building a Playlist," "Looking back on The Year," and "Martha & Mike." Bruce Clifford's two poems for us are "Engraved in My Mind" and "Free from This."


As always we continue to rely on our co-founder and webmaster Mike Craner. With this eZine looking forward to the February issue which begins Volume 28 online, he is the one we trust for our status quo. Thank you, Mike, for all you accomplish. I shall continue to place our confidence in him as we have in the past.

See you in February!


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Mike's Place

 


By Michael L. Craner

What does Christmas mean to me? Sharing it with family. Simple and homemade gifts mean the most to me, but even without those just spending it with family is everything.


You see, in the winter of 1993/1994 (last century) I was attached to the United Nations and deployed half a world away to Croatia. I didn't spend it with my family, I didn't spend it with my new family.


I slept in a small section of a tent at the end of an airport runway. Where when the heater worked it drove you out and stank of diesel exhaust, and when it failed (weekly) we froze, during the largest recorded snowfall in modern history for the area. Gunshots fired over camp to commemorate Christmas and New Years rather than safer fireworks.


I missed my first anniversary, first Christmas with my first son, New Years, and his first birthday. I was in a land, doing my job, helping people that really didn't want us there in the first place. I did it because it was my job and I swore an oath.


Now, we did our best to celebrate together, all US military branches. French, Swedes, others, even Russians. Yes, the cold war was suddenly over and we found ourselves shoulder to shoulder, working together. It was a unique and touching time, but it was still away from my familes, so it was also cold, dark, and sad.


I spent a lot of holidays away, and thats why they mean so much to me now. As hard as it can be a times to be with your family, life is too short to not embrace the chances we get to be together. Be the magic, make those memories and cherish the time you have with them because tomorrow isn’t guaranteed.


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Armchair Genealogy

 


By Melinda Cohenour

Happy New Year! May 2025 usher in a wonderful year filled with good health, joy, love, inspiration, prosperity and great discoveries.


This past year your author had great plans for family research. Unfortunately, as happens with plans, life often delivers detours, unexpected hazards, and heartbreaking roadblocks. Therefore, this upcoming year requires a new route to embark upon. Some projects will continue to demand attention; some may merely appear and entice our pursuit.

    1. The Gilgo Beach Serial Murderer (otherwise known as LISK, or the Long Island Serial Killer.

    This case first drew my attention more than a decade ago when the evening news announced the discovery on that brushy beach area of human remains described as being bound in burlap, followed immediately thereafter by the discovery of not one but three additional sets of remains very near the first.

    As the story continued to unfold, interested readers faced numerous delays in news reports from investigating police. In the beginning, actually, the police department itself became the news. A seemingly unending litany of corruption, misdirection, criminal activity, ongoing internal investigation and conviction of top officials

    This complication led to the Gilgo Beach murders becoming, in essence, cold cases. It was several years later those cases were brought to the forefront. Old, old case notes and a mountain of evidentiary materials were exposed to fresh eyes and new theories.

    The initial count of victims exposed as a result of thorough searches numbered eleven: Shannan Gilbert, the missing woman whose disappearance first triggered the discovery in the first place; the four women whose remains were first discovered and are known as the Gilgo Beach four; partial remains consisting of four "packaged" sets of body parts resulting from dismemberment (most were skulls, hands, feet, or legs lacking torsos or trunks in most cases); and two puzzling skeletal findings which would later become known as the Asian trans male dressed in women's clothing and a toddler linked through DNA analysis to the partial remains known as Peaches.

    Years have been devoted to identification of the victims whose remains had been strewn along a fairly compact stretch of beach. DNA has been utilized extensively to accomplish that critical starting point.

    In concert with the effort to identify the victims, forensic teams have painstakingly examined the remains, the packaging materials, the burial sites, and the binding materials (belts, duct tape, and so forth) for clues to the identity of their murderer.

    In July of 2023 a long awaited arrest was made. An unlikely perpetrator was encircled by a team of law enforcement officers representing several agencies and departments and taken into custody. Rex Andrew Heuermann, a married man with a biological daughter and a special needs stepson, who owned his own architectural firm located in a prominent area of New York City was quickly subdued. He remains in custody.

    Initially charged with the murders of Melissa Barthelemy, Megan Waterman and ber Costello, he was later charged also with the murder of Maureen Mainard-Barnes.

    Earlier in 2024, new charges for Heuermann were brought for the murders of Jessica Taylor and ... Surprise, surprise ... an as yet unconnected victim named Sandra Castilla whose death occurred in 1993.

    Latest news: In December of 2024, charges were brought in the death of Valerie Mack. This was the victim everyone expected to be named along with Jessica Taylor. Their dismembered torsos were discovered years ago in Manorville New York, Mack in 2000 and Taylor in 2003 and their "missing parts" later discovered on Gilgo Beach. That brings the victim count officially charged to Rex Heuermann to seven, six of whom were tied to Gilgo Beach.

    Shannan Gilbert is not believed to be one of his victims, although the search for her led to the discovery of the additional remains. Six of the victims were discarded on Gilgo Beach. Four sets of remains have not been officially ascribed to Heuermann: Peaches, whose dismembered torso revealed a unique tattoo on one breast of a peach dripping either tears or blood, has not been identified although many (including your author) have unsuccessfully attempted to follow posted DNA family members and name her; second is Peaches' baby girl whose body was found wrapped in a baby blanket with gold jewelry similar to pieces left with her mother's remains; third the Asian male who appears to have identified as female, and fourth Karen Vergara known for years as Fire Island Jane Doe.

    New evidence presented in the latest court documents indicate police have been able to determine there were similarities between the cutting instruments used to dismember Mack and Taylor, as well as the garbage bags containing their remains, the bail application says.

    No court date for trial hasn't as yet been scheduled although it is expected Heuermann will appear for interim hearings.

    2. Five Brick Walls: Research will continue in the effort to locate documentary or genetic proof to identify the individuals who provide the genetic link needed. If found, a column will cover the find. (Fingers crossed!)
    3. Deeper research into newly discovered DNA matches of yours truly. Or, for my grandson and granddaughter-in-love whose DNA test results I manage.
    4. Any groundbreaking discoveries related to DNA processes, methods, procedures, cures, etc.
    5. Whatever may float my boat ...


This column is dear to me because Armchair Genealogy is my passion. Please explore your own. It is unbelievable how CONNECTED you may become to those ancestors who contributed to making you YOU!


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Introspective

 


By Thomas F. O'Neill

Another year is over, and a new one has just begun.


January carries symbolic significance in many spiritual and religious traditions as it marks the beginning of a new year. The spiritual meaning of January often revolves around themes of renewal, new beginnings, and setting intentions for the year ahead. It is a time for reflection, introspection, and spiritual growth.


In various belief systems worldwide, January may be associated with rituals, ceremonies, and practices aimed at letting go of the past, seeking forgiveness, and embracing hope for the future. For example, it is common for individuals to engage in prayer, meditation, or other spiritual activities as a way of aligning themselves with their deeper intentions and aspirations for the coming year.


The symbolism of January often extends to concepts such as rebirth, transformation, and the potential for personal and collective evolution. It is seen as an opportunity to cultivate positive change, deepen one's spiritual connection, and embrace a sense of purpose as the year unfolds.


The spiritual meaning of January can vary widely depending on individual beliefs, traditions, and cultural contexts. Still, it generally represents a time of spiritual significance and an opportunity for inner growth and renewal.


The New Year of 2025 is now upon us, with new hopes and resolutions. It is now out with the old and in with the new; may you be happy the whole year through.


Let this new year be filled not just with warm wishes and new hopes but with joyful hearts.


From my heart to yours, I wish all of you a promising and fulfilling New Year !!!!


Always with love
Thomas F O'Neill

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Cooking with Rod's Family

 By Melinda Cohenour


Well, we've known for years our granddaughter Erin Elaine Bostick is a superb baker. Cakes, cupcakes, pies, muffins, cookies all turn out perfect.


What she is now becoming is a creative cook as well. She's mastered the slow cooker, microwave, air fryer, electric and stovetop skillets. So the basic modern day skills are there. Having been the chief cook for her household the last few years, she is now branching out into creating or modifying recipes to delight her guests or family.


These two recipes absolutely delighted ME, her adoring grandmother. And Pop would have loved both the soup and the cornbread. (Loyal readers may remember he delivered a column focused on variations of cornbread a few years ago. Miss him, I do!)


Try both recipes in concert. I'm sure you'll love them,


Bon appetit~!

Erin's Potato Paradise Soup

Ingredients:

    * 2 jumbo baking potatoes, cubed and boiled
    * 6 large Russet potatoes, cubed and boiled
    * 1 cup celery, diced
    * 2 cans 14 oz Cream of Chicken soup
    * 2 cans 14 oz Cream of Mushroom soup
    * 1 cup green onion, bulb and green, diced
    * 2 cans 14 oz whole kernel corn, drained
    * 1 bag (about 1 oz) bacon bits
    * 1/4 brick Velveeta cheese, cubed


Instructions:

    1. Cube potatoes and add to medium saucepan. Cover with water, bring to a boil, lower temperature and simmer until tender. Add potatoes and water to a large stew pot.
    2. Add all 4 cans of soup, rinse to use all the soup with about half a can of water in each.
    3. In saucepan used for potatoes, add 3 Tablespoons butter or margarine. Heat just until melted. Add celery and onions. Stir until onion bulb is translucent and celery is softened. Add to large stew pot.
    4. Add remaining ingredients, keep temp on Medium High, stir frequently until heated through. Stir often to make sure soup ingredients do not stick and scorch.
5. Serve with Erin's Cheesy Rotel Cornbread

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Erin's Cheesy Rotel Cornbread

Ingredients:

    * 2 boxes Jiffy cornbread mix
    * Add per box instructions egg and water
    * 1 can 10 oz Rotel
    * 1 can whole kernel corn, drained
    * 1/4 brick Velveeta cheese, cubed


Instructions:

    1. Prepare 2 boxes Jiffy according to box instructions.
    2. Add Rotel, corn, and cubed Velveeta. Stir well.
    3. Spray 10 inch oven proof casserole dish with Pam cooking spray. Pour cornbread mixture into this dish. Use spatula to bake all the mix.
    4. Bake in preheated 375° oven for 15 minutes.


Serve to accompany soup, or chili, or any other stew or chowder.


This cornbread is moist in the middle, crust is perfectly browned and tastes delicious!


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