Monday, April 1, 2019

Editor's Corner


 

April 2019


"Our wisdom comes from our experience,
and our experience comes from our foolishness."
-- Sacha Guitry

April this year is bringing many people consternation about weather, health, what food is really healthy, and the answers only bring more questions. But a very wise woman, Lena May Joslin Carroll, your editor's mother said when I apologized for asking so many questions, "Questions are the pathway to wisdom." And then with that quirky smile of pure orneriness added, "And they can help us find our new path when we run away from home." She was always planning the next camping trip, the next rock hunting quest, the next journey to a place not seen before. She made getting wherever an adventure every step of the way. And yet she had time to notice and share beauty in microscopic glimpses, like calling me over beside her as we were weeding the flowerbeds early one morning, having me place my cheek next to her own so we had the very same view, revealing to me her discovery of dozens of minute rainbows reflecting as the morning sun hit the dew trapped on the fluff of a dandelion ready to be dispersed in every direction yet for the moment holding heaven in its own space. Just as such memories help us hold love within our hearts.

Her baby girl, Melinda, that Cohenour one who does the Armchair Genealogy column dwells in memories as she researches carefully various sources to prepare the sometimes amazing histories of family members, capturing those revealing documents that bring the tales into focus, as though we knew that ancestor personally. A different direction on a pathway, but trailing those elusive answers documented here there and everywhere.

Marilyn Carnell, whose column "Sifoddling Along" sifoddles to many places, and this month goes back to "Eden" and why she left there. LC Van Savage wends her way back through famous faces and seeks to determine if certain physical features set one's way throughout their life. Judith Kroll launches herself and seeks others to accompany her as she finds a way to make life and living more joyous through kindness and good deeds.

Mattie Lennon has been digging into the books of acquaintances and others in his ongoing treasure hunt for unforgettable Irish incidents and events. Thomas F. O'Neill, who recently returned from his occupation in China of being an ESL Teacher, discusses cultural differences between students in America and China on the television show of Sam Lesante in Pennsylvania. He returns there in June.

Rod Cohenour, our cooking columnist and author of Cooking with Rod, prepares an Easter meal that may have you hopping in your vehicle to find some of the tasty ingredients he combines so magically you wonder where he keeps that traveling carpet that helps him chase down his ideas.

Our poets have a variety of subjects to intrigue the reader, Bruce Clifford wonders if that certain someone can "Remember When," and shares his perspective of "Dawn of Day." Bud Lemire is still dancing along a shamrock sprinkled glade, basking in the afterglow of "St. Patrick's Day."

John I Blair swings back with a full slate for April, tracing life and its abrupt conclusions while reminiscing about his father, and the strangely poignant consideration of a squirrel's demise. He lets his thought stream on to unsolvable mysteries, to unexpected and joy filled sights, as well as insomnia and a warming concept of a tree. His April poems are: Earthen House, Crossing Over, White, Surprise Poppies, Four A.M. and March Cypress.

We have a poem this issue from Beverly F. Walker, long time chat friend, well known for her many stories in the "Chicken Soup for the Soul" books. Her poem involves a short trip she wants her pet to make, but that pet has "Catitude." Hope to see more of your creativity here, Beverly.

We always save this for last, when in reality if it didn't come first we wouldn't be here again, pressing onward with our dreams now in our 22d year online. A position we cherish, that's maintained by the diligence of our webmaster and beloved friend, Mike Craner.

See you in May!

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Armchair Genealogy


 

George F Hempleman, an American Patriot


      Each American should be able to locate a number of Revolutionary heroes in their family tree so long as their Immigrant Ancestor arrived in the New World before 1770. For many the first ancestor to reach America’s virgin shore arrived in the early 1630’s (as did many of your author’s own ancestors). However, this month we celebrate the heroism of an ancestor whose long trip to America presented him with many hardships; yet, he so loved his new country that he still volunteered to take part in the battle to gain independence. George F. Hempleman, the son of a Baron in Hesse Castle, Germany, chose to make the arduous journey to America in the company of his brother, Adam, and the love of his life, Marguerite Duffy. This is his story.

      The story of George Hempleman and his beloved Marguerite has been told by your author in a prior column. (http://www.pencilstubs.com/Magazine/MagPage.asp?NID=4871 ) That column related the love story for which George and Marguerite are best known. Their love story has inspired poetry, been made the subject of more than one book, and served as the basis for a movie. This story, however, has been much more difficult to research – the story of George Hempleman’s love for his new country – a love so great he chose to risk everything to help achieve America’s independence from England, the foreign sovereignty that had chosen to impose horrendous taxes, laws, and punitive measures against the colonies. In another prior column, mention was made in a brief biographic sketch of the military service documented by others for both George and his brother, Adam Hempleman, during the Revolutionary War. (http://www.pencilstubs.com/Magazine/MagPage.asp?NID=5472)

      It has been far more difficult to research the service of George Hempleman in depth due to the loss or absence of so many documents pertaining to the Pennsylvania militia. Many buildings and other receptacles of historic documents were subjected to destruction by fire by British soldiers, leaving a paucity of information detailing actual military maneuvers. In spite of this, dear 5th Great-Grandfather George F. Hempleman’s service to his country HAS been documented and your author shall attempt to paste together the story from the available sources.

      George F. Hempleman was a remarkable character on the family tree for a number of reasons, not the least of which was his extraordinary length of life – he was born 24th June 1732 in Swabia, Germany, and gave up his hold on immortality on 7 April 1842 in South Charleston, Clark County, Ohio, an incredible span of 109 years, 9 months, and 14 days! Towards the end of his life, George experienced the usual ravages of old age: nearly blind, good hearing, completely rational and sane although confined to his home due to physical infirmities, a bad memory by his reckoning (although his Declaration in support of a pension due him for his Revolutionary War service reflects a rather excellent memory of names, places, and approximate dates – not perfect but found to be reliable upon research by your author).

      In the final year of his life, George Hempleman, Sr., aided by his son George Hempleman, Jr., filed a Declaration for Pension for his service in the Revolutionary War. In that application, we find clues to document his service. In that application, he states:

      That he entered the service of the United States at the time the British occupied the City of Philadelphia. He was drafted into the Militia of Pennsylvania. He then lived at Sunbury upon the Susquehanna. His Captain’s name was Clingman. The Col (2-1) Schaeffer and he believes his General’s name was Bull. He marched to the neighborhood of Philadelphia and remained three months within which time there was a skirmish between Bull’s men and the British at Guilford Hall in which two of our men was killed.

      In support of this declaration, we find the following concerning General Bull:
John Bull was born on June 1st, 1731 in Montgomery, Pennsylvania and held the rank of Colonel in Pennsylvania's 2nd Regiment during the American Revolution. He is the son of Thomas Bull and Elizabeth Rossiter. He was appointed Colonel on May 2nd, 1777. On June 17th, 1777, he was promoted to Adjutant General of the Pennsylvania Militia by the Pennsylvania Supreme Executive Council.

      It was not until late in 1777 that Pennsylvania complied with the urgent request of General George Washington that the state begin a formal draft of eligible men between the ages of 17 and 53 to serve in a State Militia. The citizens of Pennsylvania were largely opposed to any form of compulsory military service, an attitude in line with the beliefs of the Quaker religion: pacifist and strictly opposed to military actions.

      At the behest of General George Washington (1732-99), the “Act to Regulate the Militia of the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania” in March 1777 required all able-bodied men ages 18 to 53 to serve tours of two months, established strict draft conditions, and levied heavy fines and penalties against those unwilling to participate. Battalions elected their own officers for three-year terms, and County Lieutenants (not a military rank) enforced the regulations within their communities. Under these conditions, eight militia battalions of roughly one hundred soldiers per battalion formed in Philadelphia and the surrounding counties. (SOURCE: https://philadelphiaencyclopedia.org/archive/militia/)

      In addition to his requisite two months’ service in the Pennsylvania militia as referenced above, George Hempleman was also called upon to provide protection from the Indians who continued to oppose the frontiersmen who deigned to settle upon their traditional lands. In his own words, as documented in his Pension application, George provides the following information:

      Some time after this service, but he cannot state how long, he was again drafted to go against the Indians. He does not remember the names of any of his officers upon this tour but he served three months and went to Wyoming. The years following he was again drafted to go against the Indians and served three months. He marched upon this town upon the North Branch of the Susquehanna, but he does not remember the names of any of the officers. His residence was at Sunbury and he was upon each occasion drafted from there. He was a weaver by occupation and followed that business when drafted and he served in the army as a private. He was upon each occasion of his service discharged by his Captain and as he believes verbally. He believes that he never received a written discharge.

      The list of illustrious personages dear George Hempleman listed among those who knew him well included the Honorable Samson Mason, a member of Congress from Ohio, Ira Paige, Esq. a former associate judge for Clark County, Ohio, James Wallace one of the foremost merchants whose business helped to build the town, Charles Anthony, a United States attorney (who later championed George Hempleman’s efforts to obtain this pension); and a number of respected merchants, large farm owners, doctors and others within his community: Gilbert Pearce, George Buffenbarger, James Sprague, George Lott, Charles Paist, Dr. Robert Houston, John Holmes, and others. His pension application was witnessed by both a Baptist clergyman and another noted member of the Clark County, Ohio, community:

      We, Joseph Morris, a clergyman of the Baptist denomination and Thomas Anderson, a farmer, both residing in Madison Township, Clark County, Ohio, hereby certify that we are well acquainted with George Hempleman Sen. who has subscribed and sworn to the foregoing declaration. That we have been acquainted with him for twenty-six years. That we believe him to be of the age which he represents himself to be, that is to say, 110 years old next June. That he is respected and believed in the neighborhood where he resides to have been a soldier of the Revolution and that we concur in that opinion.

      One must marvel at the memories of this humble man, now nearing 110 years of age, reaching back into the mists of his own long decades to bring forth the names and dates and locations of his service. This is not the first ancestor whose application for remuneration due him for his tours of duty that resulted in the birth of our great nation was denied that rightful pension. In this case, having waited a long decade after the United States finally offered these heroes a monetary pension, his advanced age and deteriorated memory cost George Hempleman any form of monetary reward. He simply could not provide documentation of his discharge, or draft documents, nor correctly recall the names of all those with whom he fought. In spite of this, his service was finally documented in later years and his remains granted the honors due to him because “he could not document a full six months’ service” in the Revolutionary War after some 60 plus years!

      From the earlier column memorializing the military service of our various ancestors, we find the following concerning George F. Hempleman:

      Revolutionary service: George was a private, 1781, in Capt. William Johnson's company, 10th battalion, Lancaster Co., PA [p.173] militia. He was born in Germany; died in Charlestown, Ohio. Profession: Weaver, owned 342 acres in Vance twp in 1814, which was later Mad River twp of Clarke Co., Ohio.
      (Sources: Robinson's History of Greene Co., OH, Broadstone's History of Greene Co., Vol. I, p. 203, Early Clark Co. Families, Vol. I, p.149, D.A.R. Patriot Index, p. 321, History of the Hempleman Family in America, By Geo. Whitely, 1912, Northumberland County Muster list of 1776)

      George’s brother, Adam Hempleman, also served during the Revolutionary War. They chose to migrate to America together in the early 1750’s, but were separated by their servitude as indentured immigrants, and it was many years before they reunited by chance. As related in my earlier story about George, here is that tale:

      Adam Hempleman, the elder brother, was indentured to a plantation owner in Pennsylvania. After his term of indenture was paid, he first settled in Kentucky where he married and ultimately moved to Adams County, Ohio. George and Marguerite after their reunion and marriage had settled in Clark County, Ohio, by a complete quirk of fate (if you believe all such coincidences to be merely coincidental.) The brothers, who had each served their new country (*) during the Revolutionary War, had not seen one another since their arrival in the New World. Many decades had passed with no word being exchanged between them. George and his love, Marguerite had made plans to meet at the church but Adam and George had not made any such plans leaving their future to fate. ( In another tale related by descendant George Whitley, in his book, A History of the Hempleman Family in America, 1912, Higginson, authored by George Whiteley):
      “…by chance a neighbor of Adam Hempleman was traveling north and stopped with George Hempleman Jr., overnight, remarked that there was a man in his county by the same name of Hempleman that resembled him very much and later George Hempleman, Sr., in the company with his son George, visited Adam Hempleman at his home in Adams County. What a reunion that must have been....... “

      Thus, we give tribute to George F. Hempleman, our 5th Great-Grandfather on my father’s side of the family. Rest in Peace, sweet Patriot!

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Sifoddling Along


 

Eden Exit


         On a sultry summer day in the early 1990’s, we were perched high above Penitentiary Bend, an ox-bow curve in Big Sugar Creek, named for the many sugar maples that once clung to its banks. The narrow stream then meandered to the southwest in its serpentine track to join Little Sugar Creek and thus form Elk River at Pineville, Missouri, my home town. We had retired there the year before. Beginning several miles to the south, Big Sugar wended its way west toward Oklahoma. Most Missouri streams flow directly southeast to the Mississippi. It was one of the many odd things about McDonald County and that wasn’t counting some of the people.
         The origin of bend’s ominous name was lost in time. Perhaps it was the site of a POW camp during the Civil War, but no one was sure. I had grown up in a culture of hill folk. My ancestors had lived in the mid-south mountains since the 1700’s. There was a strong oral tradition where stories were told for entertainment and to preserve history and family lore. Unfortunately, in modern times, weekly “visiting” and the frequent repetition of favorite tales had died out and the culture was dying as well. To a small extent that day my husband Al and I were acting out a rite from the past – visiting with a relative and catching up.
         The deck was cantilevered beyond the edge of a limestone bluff at eagle-eye level. The deck was what made my Cousin Paul’s cabin perfect. We could see the bass flicking through pristine water far below. Paul said he could hang a fishing line over the rail and catch dinner without leaving the house. For eons it had been the only highway through the region – first to ease movement of Indians who came to hunt and fish, then explorers and settlers. Over time, it had become simply a recreational stream - popular because it was slow moving, relatively shallow and crystal clear with a gravel bottom. It was ideal for floating, swimming, fishing or idling away a pleasant day. Other than the many camp ground owners who made a tidy profit from a cash-only business, the locals merely tolerated visitors. They did refrain from bumper stickers that read “If there is a tourist season, why can’t we shoot them?” They probably thought about it, but lack of availability of stickers or inertia prevented any action. There is a lot of inertia in the Ozarks. Scarlett O’Hara might have had some relatives who lived there.
         We enjoyed the warm summer afternoon; watching an occasional flotilla of canoes glide past. In the distance we saw buzzards slowly circling. They had caught a whiff of dinner. During the warm months, the bald eagles sub-let the sky to the buzzards that tidied up after speeding tourists. Apparently they found road kill tasty. A soft breeze soughed through the steep wooded hills that were lush with the heavy greenery of summer. Below a grove of sycamores hid their bony white fingers beneath a verdant canopy.
         That was the moment I had an inspiration. “I don’t think I could ever get closer to Heaven than where I am today.” I said to my husband. After a few moments of quiet, I said, “Al, I want a place on Big Sugar.”
         My husband was agreeable to almost anything I proposed so long as I was reasonably well behaved and didn’t do something outrageous on the courthouse steps and scare the horses. That is another way of saying that provided I didn’t do something embarrassing that might alarm others, he was game.
          “Good idea,” he said. That week we began looking for a cabin on Big Sugar Creek. Success was improbable. I wanted to have a place not too remote and there were very few houses on the ten mile stretch of dirt road that ran beside the creek between Pineville and the once thriving hamlet of Cyclone. Remote was a relative term. McDonald County wasn’t at the ends of the earth, but you could almost see it from there.

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         For most of the first eighteen years of my life, I had planned my escape from Pineville, a backwater village that had raised me with love and caring. It was the safest place I would ever know; peaceful, cooperative and to be totally honest, I was related to most of the people in one way or another. My generation saw no future in staying. The days of self-sustaining farms were over; there was little hope of finding a job. We had to leave or be satisfied with a very bleak future. It was also the dawn of realization that women could have a career and I wanted one.
         The next thirty five years I was torn between two worlds as I worked my way up a career in foods and nutrition while the same time I tried to distance myself from my hillbilly origins. The daughter of a teacher, I could speak standard English and “pass” in most situations. Once in a while a colloquial expression would come out unbidden and cause momentary confusion, but that was fairly rare. During those years I met and married Al Williams. We lived in a community on Philadelphia’s Main Line. I had landed jobs with Fortune 500 companies, held my own in a competitive environment with colleagues from all over the world, but my inner self said I was a fraud and didn’t really belong in such elitist realms. At the same time, I was always pulled toward “home” and subconsciously plotted ways to return to the Eden I had left behind..

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         Al and I stumbled upon our haven by stopping to talk with a farmer who was near the road and asking if he knew of anyplace to rent. As it happened, he did. We contacted the owner, bought it “as is” and quickly shopped for some minimal furnishings – a luxurious king size bed, bookcases and a couple of couches upholstered with an “Indian’ pattern that we thought appropriate for a rustic retreat.
         The cabin was built by a retired Colonel who was clearly a micro-manager if not a fine craftsman. He probably wore a belt and suspenders. Our new house was built on pilings with room for the water to flow under it if necessary. No detail too small, the Colonel made sure that the cabin was officially above the flood plain according to FEMA. He was a great believer in redundancy: the cabin had electric and propane heat panels and a large wood stove. Of course, our first agenda item was to add central heat and air.
          It wasn’t an impressive place, a wooden structure built on pilings overlooking the creek about 15 feet below. No one ever accused me of being house proud. Because we paid cash, we got it cheap. We had acquired seven acres of beauty located in the middle of a 2,500 acre State Park. Unlike Cousin Paul’s place, our cabin wasn’t high on a bluff, but snuggled deep in the valley next to the creek far from the dusty road. If we wanted peace and quiet, we had found it.
         We could sit on our deck and watch fish glide around or enjoy seeing blue herons on high stepping tiptoes hunting along the shore in search of minnows. The cabin’s relative crudeness meant that no one had to worry about protecting good things from wet swim suits, or dusty feet. It was a place to relax and be ourselves. We named it Sweet Williams Place. I had found Eden once more.
          I forgot about the snake.
         We lived by Big Sugar Creek for 15 years. When a nearby cabin came on the market, we bought it to use as a guest house and an art/sewing studio for me. Even in the country Al and I needed a little personal space. We loved the creek. We started a daily blog, kept busy with individual projects and time went by. Big Sugar still seemed to be a magical place to me. It was the background of many stories and family memories It is scenic in every season, lush and verdant in the summer, all colors in the fall, silvery in the winter and exploding with energy in the spring – powdered with dogwood, laced with magenta frosted redbud and wild flowers carpeted the greening woods.
          During the warm months, canoes slipped past. We had an easy relationship with them; similar to the one we had with our usually unseen neighbors, cottonmouth and copperhead snakes. We didn’t bother them and they didn’t bother us. We were comfortable in our country home and didn’t plan to leave except feet first.

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         We had seen high water come and go, even get close to the bottom of our steps, but in April of 2011, the weather seemed different. For several days heavy rain had been falling; “railroading storms” they were called. The gravid dark clouds seemed to have an endless supply of water to share. The pelting drops hit the earth’s surface so hard they bounced. They splattered like a “cow peeing on a flat rock” as the old timers would say. The scant topsoil of the high savannas barely supported second growth trees that replaced the original pine forests. The soil got so water logged that trees began to topple.
         Water cascaded down the steep hills carrying with it last year’s sodden leaves, fallen trees and twigs that accumulated into big rafts of debris speeding atop the red clay-laden water. Some of the rain sank into the karst limestone cavities that honeycombed each hill. Every ridge was riddled with sinkholes, caves and faults that carried the water for miles only to come gushing out of wet-weather springs and feed the torrent.
          Al and I were not alarmed. Instead of doing anything practical like putting books on high shelves, we dithered. I was distracted because we had a friend staying at our guest house about 50 yards away. I waded through cold muddy water several times that morning to be sure that Meredith could get out of the valley safely. It was only three days until the “World Premier” of “Snake County Stories” a folk history play that my friend Colleen and I were producing for the local Chamber of Commerce. Meredith was the playwright and director so I was glad that she could continue to work on last minute production details. I was on the phone a lot, talking to friends who said they had called 911 for us to be rescued as they had heard a flash flood was in the making. Surely not, I said. We’ve been through this before; we’ll be fine.
         Al was in complete denial and refused to leave the cabin and I refused to leave him. I was out of my mind. It will crest soon. Floods on Big Sugar had a typical pattern. There would be a sharp rise to the peak height and an abrupt ebbing. These floods were very unlike Mississippi floods or hurricanes that left water standing for days. It would be a quick up and down. No worries.
         All morning we monitored the US Geological Survey gage height a few miles upstream, forgetting that there were other tributaries coming into the creek between that location and our cabin. At 15 ft. we knew that in about five hours water would be up in our yard and around the cabin. We moved the car up to the top of the driveway - just in case. If the water got high we didn’t want to get stuck in the mud. The gage readings were creeping up - 16 ft., 17 ft., 18 ft. I looked out our back windows. Our neighbor’s cars were gone. We were the last hold-outs. We were on our own. Fear clinched my belly.
         Suddenly a tsunami of pent up raging water surged into our kitchen. No mere walls could hold it back. Our delusions of safety were finally breached. It was time to flee. We waded across the deck and started down the steps to descend into the maelstrom. I looked up and saw our neighbor Jim York wading toward us pushing a canoe ahead of him. On the higher ground was his mom, Marilyn, the Rowses and two teen age boys cheering us on. We hadn’t been abandoned after all. We were going to be saved.
          Al and I struggled against the roiling debris-filled current threatening to push us underwater while clinging to the canoe. Two geezers in their 70’s who didn’t walk all that well on dry land.. The roar of the creek pounded our ears. The pelting rain had funneled through the ravines and hollers into the main stream and created a wall of muddy water that was washing over us. The odor was fetid and evil; a funky mixture of moldy leaves, soil and other detritus. Sometimes I still smell it in my dreams
          The mud sucked at our feet; I wasn’t sure I could keep my shoes on. I was a good thing I did as it was the only shoes I had for the next year (not because I couldn’t afford them, I simply didn’t care.) We scrambled to keep our footing. I held on the canoe and tried to keep my purse out of the water. Inside I had stuffed a Wal-Mart bag that contained all we could salvaged – a cell phone, medicine, a little cash, credit cards and checkbooks. We were soaked to our armpits as the water lapped, lapped, lapped against our bodies. The creek wanted to devour us.
         After reaching high ground, for a little while, we all stood in speechless shock. We were all soaking wet, scared and witless. There were eight of us. Three families were suddenly refugees. Gradually some reason returned and as a small group we started making basic plans - call the local motel and book rooms; board the pets with the local vet. Call family and friends and let them know we were ok, just a little inconvenienced. No need to worry. Our neighbors had saved us. We were fine. Just fine.
         The 911 calls had gone unanswered. No one came to help us.

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         We learned later that the crest was an unheard of 22 ft. The currents had been like a washing machine churning everything within its reach into a muddy stew. Treasured belongings collected over a lifetime were totally ruined. Six tall Ikea bookcases made of laminate, sagged toward the floor. The guesthouse was a soggy ruin. Our best things were in it - most of our art collection, our “city” furniture (it was a pet-free zone), handmade quilts and so much more. In the home cabin there was more art work, our collection of hundreds of cookbooks, my copious files on local history and anything else that caught my attention from thong trees to Ozark architecture. Shoes were in the bottoms of the closets.
         With a $300 credit card from the Red Cross, we were able to go to the nearest Wal-Mart and buy some essentials – underwear, toothbrushes, one outfit of cheap clothes each, some food and a really ugly lavender nightgown for me. I had my own credit cards, but that credit card was a little cushion that helped until I could assess the losses. I might need money in the short term.
         We were homeless. For the next two months we were like flotsam ourselves, moving our belongings in garbage bags from place to place. I gathered financial information and prepared to meet with government representatives in the town firehouse. Al’s son, David, flew from North Carolina to help deal with the cleanup. I hired a disaster cleaning firm. I did triage: 1) keep 2) dry 3) hopeless. It was impossible to keep up with what was happening with work crews in two houses tossing anything wet without regard to potential salvage. Seven dumpsters of precious belongings were sent to a landfill in Kansas. So many things that I later realized had been safely above the flood level; others that just needed washing – stainless steel bowls aren’t ruined by a little mud. So many things disappeared that I later suspected a lot of stuff was siphoned off to line someone’s pockets, but that realization was a long time in the future. It was months before I was capable of realizing how many “things” were gone forever.
          A few days into the clean-up, Al got critically ill. Unknown to me, he had taken a lot of aspirin that resulted in the eruption of a gushing ulcer. By the time I got him to the hospital 100 miles away, he was near death. The emergency room physicians pulled him back from the brink and I began to breathe again myself. After being reassured that he would be recovering, I had I had to leave Al’s side and to go home to deal with another crisis.
         During our absence, a F-5 tornado in Joplin had absorbed all of the available housing and repair workers in the entire area. Moreover, a second epic flood occurred on Big Sugar Creek the same week. This time water didn’t get up into the houses, but all of the carefully packed boxes and other items that had been stored in shipping containers in the yards were flooded. Naturally, the best things were at the bottom. We were back to the beginning. I was almost catatonic.
          I managed to rent an “apartment” in a neighbor’s barn for a month and brought Al home from the hospital. He was still too weak to do more than lie on a couch while David and I worked on the salvage operation.
          Our original plan had been to take the opportunity to upgrade as we repaired the cabins. Accordingly, many large items that were at least salvageable were given away or tossed. I was ok with that, but I came back from town one day to find that after discussion with David, Al had decided that we should move away for good. I didn’t fight it. I was already beaten.
          My son, Ben, called. He had offered to come and help earlier, but I knew that I couldn’t cope with any more people at the time. He said he could find us a place to rent in Hopkins, Minnesota since there was no available temporary housing in SW Missouri. Ben thought we needed to find a safe place to rest and be in a better position to make rational decisions about our future. We accepted his offer. He came down the next day. The following days were filled with arranging for the move to a distant place.

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         It took an Act of God to evict me from Eden. This time the snake was the serpentine creek that rose and swept us away in a torrent of muddy red water. The resulting trauma led to our relocating in Minnesota where there was family for support. It isn’t paradise. Minnesota is a very different kind of garden – lovely in its own way, but much colder in climate and cooler in culture. “Minnesota Nice” is like the Platte River – a mile wide and an inch deep. As a talkative hillbilly who as always felt she could have a conversation with a fence post, it is hard to understand the reserved Scandinavian culture. It is also very different living in a city once again, but after two years, it is beginning to feel like home. My long journey has taught me that it is wiser to accept imperfection.
         After all, any Eden is only temporary.

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Cooking with Rod


 

An Easter Menu – And an Easter Surprise


This is the month we celebrate EASTER! After a dreary, cold Winter, we welcome the first flowering buds on trees, the buoyant blooms popping through the soil as Hyacinths, Daffodils, Jonquils, Tulips and other bulbs burst through - first offering their sweet green leaves before bringing forth their colorful blooms. Youngsters all round begin thinking about how many Easter eggs they can find to fill their Easter baskets and Moms begin worrying about how in the world they’re going to keep all those hard-boiled Bunny Eggs from going to waste! Fear not, oh faithful cooks! For we have a plan (or two or three) that will save the day and please the palate.

First of all, if your neck of the woods has been hit by one of Mother Nature’s little quirks – like snow and frostbite or a bit too much of the watering of the bulbs that left your yard awash in mud instead of sweet, green grass – try a creative Bunny egg hunt inside! You can still let the kiddos help decorate the eggs or you can shop for some Cadbury’s eggs, chocolate bunnies, peanut butter eggs, or what-have-you in the way of Easter candies, or you can buy a batch of plastic eggs and some miniature toy treats. Whichever plan you adopt, make sure you keep the chocolate away from the pets as it is toxic for the four-legged crowd. Count carefully to ensure every egg treat gets “found” by the kiddos, even if Grandpa or Grandma must help. This is a good plan with those decorated Bunny eggs, too, for it only takes one sulfuric disaster to spoil the atmosphere if overlooked!


Now to the fun part – the best part of Easter, the sharing of the blessings and the food with the loved ones.


Bon appetit!~

The Easter Ham

At our house, Easter just calls out for a delicious, juicy, tasty ham and all the fixings. The best choice, in my opinion, is a spiral cut ham since it offers those nice thin slices and the cuts usually go to the bone, making it easy to salvage the bone for the bean pot or a nice ham and potato chowder. Most spiral hams come with a pre-packaged glaze or basting sauce, but we kind of prefer to mix our own. Sometimes we use both – blending the packaged goodies in after we mix our own. Our goal is to have plenty for the ham and enough to serve at the table as well. The choice is up to you, but here’s our recipe:

Ingredients:
    Large 7 to 10 lb. ham, spiral cut, precooked, no water added (this is often referred to as a city ham, as opposed to the country ham which is not sliced, usually is not precooked, and comes with a whole different set of rules for cooking!)
    Large 20 oz. can pineapple slices, drained, all juice reserved
    1 cup brown sugar
    1 Tbsp cinnamon
    2 tsp nutmeg
    ½ tsp allspice (this spice if very strong, go easy)
    ¼ cup honey
    ½ cup reserved pineapple juice (reserve what is left)

Instructions:
    1. Preheat the oven to 250°.
    2. Rinse, score the outer surface not cutting into the meat itself, then wrap the ham completely in aluminum foil. Place in a large roasting pan. Let roast for about 1 to 1 ½ hours to ensure the ham is fully heated through. A warm ham absorbs the glaze better (and lets the cook move forward with all the side dishes.)
    3. Prepare the basting sauce: In a small bowl place the brown sugar and spices. Add honey and about ½ cup of the reserved pineapple juice. The basting sauce should have a pretty thick consistency in order to glaze the ham and not just wash over it. You can always add more liquid if needed.
    4. When the ham has become deliciously aromatic and is fully heated through, remove roasting pan from the oven, increase the oven temperature to about 350° and unwrap the ham.
    5. Using a basting brush or large plastic spatula, begin glazing the bare ham (we will add the pineapple slices later). Make sure to cover the entire surface, but end up with the meatiest side up and the flattest side down in the roasting pan.
    6. After about 20 minutes, pull the roasting pan from the oven and place the pineapple slices on the ham, securing as necessary with toothpicks (which can be removed later).
    7. Baste the entire ham and all the pineapple slices and return to the oven.
    8. Baste again after another 20 minutes.
    9. Return to the oven for the final browning. You want the ham to have a lovely, even glaze but not be overly browned in any section. If you must, wrap foil over any part that is browning too much while the rest is not ready. You be the judge – it is your presentation. (Pssst, remove those toothpicks before serving!)
Easter Surprise Dressing

Here’s the fun part! We will use those leftover hard-boiled Easter bunny eggs to hide in the dressing, making it even more fun for the kiddos. It is even more fun if some of the dye material has colored the cooked egg whites.

Ingredients:
  • 1 small bag or box bread cubes for stuffing or dressing
  • 1 small bag or box cornbread for stuffing/dressing
  • 4 stalks celery, de-stringed and cut into small half-moon slices
  • 1 small onion, diced
  • 1 bell pepper, whatever color you choose, diced
  • 3 eggs
  • 1 Tbsp rubbed Sage
  • 1 Tbsp parsley
  • ½ Tbsp onion powder
  • Dash garlic powder
  • 1 to 2 tsp black pepper, your choice
  • 1 can chicken broth, unsalted, no fat
  • 3 to 4 hard-boiled Easter eggs, cut in half, with yolks

Instructions:
    1. Preheat oven to 350° (it may still be warm from the ham)
    2. Prepare vegetables next, washing, dicing, and cubing.
    3. In large bowl, combine cornbread and bread cubes. Add spices and prepared veggies. Add ½ can of the broth and the 3 eggs. Begin mixing with your hands (clean hands, always). The mixture should be fairly moist but not soggy. (No one really likes a soupy dressing!) Add broth or more bread or crackers as necessary to achieve the right texture.
    4. Butter a 9” x 13” oven-proof casserole dish. Press about half of the dressing mixture into the bottom of the dish.
    5. Now add the Easter egg halves, gently pressing each into the dressing but making sure they retain their egg shapes.
    6. Add the rest of the dressing mixture on top, making sure each egg is completely covered.
    7. Bake the dressing about 30 to 45 minutes, until the top is evenly browned and, when tested, a toothpick comes out clean from the middle of the dish.
Devilled Eggs a La M

Now, it wouldn’t be fair not to include a little idea or two from my sweet wife, the original Miss M, now would it? Besides, this ole boy dearly LOVES her devilled eggs and they make a perfect appetizer, along with a tray of fruit, cheese and crackers, while we wait for the ham and fixings to cook up.

Ingredients:
  • 2 dozen hard-boiled Easter eggs, peeled and carefully halved (we don’t want to break the egg now, do we?)
  • ½ cup Miracle Whip (you can use mayo, but we prefer this)
  • 1 Tbsp prepared mustard (the old-fashioned yellow hotdog favorite)
  • 1 Tbsp sweet pickle relish (keep the jar handy, we may want some juice)
  • Dash of black or white pepper
  • Paprika, for dusting the prepared eggs
  • Parsley, a nice garnish as well

Instructions:
    1. Make sure all the egg shells are washed from the eggs before you cut each in half.
    2. Remove all the cooked yolks and place in a small bowl.
    3. Mash up the yolks, using fork tines, keeping them fluffy.
    4. Add about half the Miracle Whip you’ve set aside and begin mixing into the yolks. Work until the mixture is fairly creamy, adding more of the Miracle Whip as necessary.
    5. Add the mustard, ground pepper, and pickle relish. Continue fluffing the yolk mixture, the goal is to have a light and creamy mixture. A touch of the pickle juice adds flavor as well.
    6. You can spoon or pipe the yolk mixture into the egg white halves, depending upon how artistic you wish to be. 7. Arrange the egg halves on a pretty dish (we use a couple of dishes specially created for presenting these egg delights)
    8. Garnish with Paprika, parsley, or your choice of: black olives, sweet pickle slices, celery stalks with leaves attached, whatever strikes your fancy.
Texas Style Angels on Horseback by M

Here’s a fun twist on the old bacon-wrapped oyster or scallop thing they do on the Coast. My Miss M has come up with a very tasty alternative. Give it a try!

Ingredients:
  • 2 Packages of Cocktail wieners (Lil Smokies are delish)
  • 1 lb. maple bacon (cut in thirds, and do not use thick cut)
  • 1 bottle barbecue sauce (Keep it Simple, Kraft’s will do)
  • 1 jar grape, apricot, or peach jelly
  • Wooden toothpicks
  • ¾ to 1 cup brown sugar (in a bowl)

Instructions:
    1. Heat your oven to 450°.
    2. Foil a large cookie sheet, this will make clean up easier.
    3. Mix the barbecue sauce and jar of jelly together, whisking thoroughly. Heat in a saucepan on top of the stove, add 2 of the Lil Smokies in to give the flavor and a bit of fat to the sauce.
    4. Wrap each Lil Smokie in a strip of bacon, securing with a toothpick and letting each end stick up (for angel wings, of course)
    5. Dip in the heated sauce, then in the bowl of the brown sugar, be sure to completely coat the wiener and the bacon.
    6. Place each wiener on the foil-wrapped cookie sheet. (Be sure to retrieve the last two Lil Smokies from the sauce and wrap them, too.)
    7. Pop in the oven and cook until the bacon is crisp.
    8. Serve with the toothpicks still attached (the horsebacks, of course!) to make it easier for your guests to help themselves.
    9. Be sure to have a small bowl of the dipping sauce alongside.

A tip from M: To turn these into Devils on Horseback, use chili sauce instead of barbecue sauce and slice each Lil Smokie, insert a strip of jalapeno pepper and a small strip of cheddar cheese before wrapping in the bacon.

The Easter Menu – all the fixings? Well, we like to have a potato dish (mashed taters or Potato Au Gratin, even Scalloped Potatoes), sweet potatoes prepared your favorite way, some green beans (casserole, with some of the ham and onion, or your family’s fav), a really nice crisp salad, hot breads, cool tea, and lots of Easter blessings for your family from mine! Happy Easter, folks!


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Introspective


 

I just recently appeared on the Sam Lesante Show and spoke about the cultural differences between the Chinese and American education system.

I think you will find the show interesting.

I posted the link below.


ESL Teacher in China Thomas O’Neill guest on Sam Lesante Show


    Always with love from Lock Haven University
    Thomas F O’Neill
    Phone: (410) 925-9334
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Irish Eyes


 

Books, Broadcasts, Songs And A Cocktail


      Listowel – A Printer’s Legacy, is a wonderful record of printing in Listowel.
      It tells the story of printing in North Kerry 1870 to 1970 and was written by local historian, Vincent Carmody.
      This is a beautiful book, a fit companion to his, Listowel, Snapshots of an Irish Market town.
      Vincent a native of the Culture Capital of Ireland has once again proved himself to be a brilliant wordsmith.
      One Listowel printer was a colourful character, Bob Cuthbertson. Over two generations, Cuthbertson Printers printed bills for auctions, fairs, dances, dramas, political rallies and public notices, as well as tickets for raffles, dances and socials. Cuthbertsons also printed ballads etc. for many literary figures of the area. Posters, tickets and playbills etc. were usually displayed for a while and then discarded. But Listowel is lucky to have a collector who saw the value of these documents as an important piece of social history. In this book, Vincent shares with us his huge collection of printed memorabilia along with his knowledge of the stories behind the posters. Vincent is a painstaking researcher and he has gathered an unrivaled collection of printed items relating to life in North Kerry in the century between 1870 and 1970. He now shares this collection with us in this beautifully produced book… a collector’s item. The book was launched in New York before a big crowd by Dr. Miriam Nyhan Grey of the Irish Studies Department in NYU in the Kerry Hall in Yonkers on Friday March 8th. It is available online at listoweloriginals.com.

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The Brompton Cocktail.

      Credit for the idea for an oral mixture of morphine and cocaine to help patients in agony with advanced disease is to surgeon Herbert Snow who came up with the idea in 1896.


      The Brompton Cocktail is named after the Royal Brompton Hospital in London, where it was invented in the late 1920s for patients with cancer. It is unlikely to be used in the 21st century but I dug up an old “prescription” for it in Listowel. With a straight face I handed it in to a branch of Lloyds Pharmacy. You can imagine the reception I got.

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The Songs of Joe Harrington

      Joe Harrington is a man of many parts. Among other things for the past eighteen years he has been producing The Irish Rambling House a show which he has taken to England for the past two decades to entertain the exiles.
      Joe was Mayor of Limerick when Bill Clinton visited here in 1998 and caused some controversy by quizzing the President on U.S sanctions on Cuba and bombings in Somalia. As the president was mounting the platform Joe whispered something to him. Now, twenty one years later, what he said has not yet been leaked to the world media.
(There is an audio clip -- Joe welcomes the President.wav)
Editor's Note: Unable to access audio clip.


      Joe has recently brought out a CD The Songs of Joe Harrington , nineteen of the many songs which the Lyreacrompane native has written over a several decades. They include ‘The Road John Murphy Made,’ the winning song in last year’s Sean McCarthy Ballad Competition sung by Pat McCarthy. (This song is set in the 1750's “connecting the butter trade to the slave trade.” You will be hearing more about it anon.)
       And nearly all his works are expressions of his pride in north Kerry and the people and places that have helped shape it. All indicative of Joe’s deep love of his homeland. The singers include the late Weeshie Forgery and the late Fr. Pat Moore. RTE's Miche├íl O'Muircheartaigh and Donnacha O'Dulaing also help out on a couple of the tracks.
      The Songs of Joe Harrington is available from kerrymusic.com

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Marconi and Ballybunion

       Ballybunion's heritage as one of the most important locations on the planet when it comes to the telecommunications history of humankind .
      'Hello Canada, hello Canada,' These were the first words ever communicated live by voice across the Atlantic, when uttered by WT Ditchem in March 1919 in his historic transmission from the Marconi Radio Station in Ballybunion to Nova Scotia.


       Sadly, the original wooden wireless station hasn't been around since the Civil War era, but the Irish College made for a perfect replacement as all decamped there for the repeat broadcast to mark the 100th anniversary of that world-changing event. . It was successfully picked up at a station close to the original receiver in Nova Scotia in a communication that gave many present a thrilling sense of the history - not least the numerous amateur and professional radio operators from across the county and region gathered. Marconi’s daughter, 89 year old princess Eletha Msrconi Giovanelli travelled from Italy for the occasion. She transmitted the words, “Hello Canada, Hello Canada” across the Atlantic exactly one hundred years after her father made such a transmission possible.


      Padraig Hanrahan, who is one of the organisers of the commemoration, which will take place on Monday and Tuesday, says Ballybunion's links with Marconi should be celebrated. "This was a massive feat of engineering 100 years ago. There are great stories about how all the equipment was first taken to Ballybunion. When the equipment got to Listowel, it had to be put on monorail to Ballybunion, but it was too big for the train, so they had to get a steam generator to bring it. It took three weeks to bring it from Listowel to Ballybunion, which are nine miles apart," says Hanrahan.
      Following the broadcast, it was over to the old bandstand between the beaches where a special plaque was unveiled commemorating the extraordinary role Ballybunion played in world history.

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      I told you last month that my friend, Padraig Reilly was going to Dubai as one of the Irish Bowling team, to compete in the Special Olympics. Well, he came home with a “clatter” of medals . Padraig is a member of Blessington Men’s shed. He was the only Men’s Shed member, from anywhere, to compete. Padraig we are proud of you .

See you in May.

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On Trek


 

How Can We Raise the Mass Consciousness on the Planet?


Our Souls must rise above the drama, trauma, ego and pain.
From judging others we refrain.
Forgive, forget the hurt we've done and received,
Our souls grow with love and nourishing deeds.

Take the blame upon ourselves and die upon our cross;
discard the negatives in our world. Let the hate be tossed!
We are one big family upon our home, the earth.
It’s time for love, time for light, time for our rebirth.

Unconditional love is the path we shall always tread.
Shedding the old, embracing the new our motto now says.
The consciousness switch miraculously flips.
Light and love will forever be upon our lips.
© 3/28/18 Judith Kroll

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Consider This


 

Heads, Dimples, Eyes and Egos


Not that anyone’s ever asked, but it appears to me there is a direct correlation between certain body parts we humans have and our life’s pursuits. For example, have you ever noticed that many actors seem to have gigantic heads? Take a good look next time you view some Thespian activity. I think you’ll agree that most of the actors involved have really big noggins. (Fred Astaire was one exception. He and John Caradine, (father of Grasshopper,) had really long, skinny heads. However, Astaire instead had huge hands. ) Look at Bette Midler and Bill Maher, Clark Gable, Rosie O’Donnell and George Segal to name just a few---all big-headed folks. And let us not forget one of the world’s greatest actors, Bill Clinton. Very large head, necessary to house a very big ego and extremely over-sized libido. So, does one have to have a large skull to be an actor? I really don’t know if it’s a criterion, but it sure seems to be the rule.

I have no idea if having a big head means a person is a good or bad actor or creative in any way at all, and I can’t really say that all creative types now cause me to gasp at the size of their cranium when we are introduced---OK, one artist in a gallery a couple of years ago, but I covered my astonishment by faking a coughing fit.

Dimples. You can be certain a person with matching dents on each cheek will appear to be divinely happy, right? That’s because they grin constantly. I guess they got so used to hearing as children that their dimples were adorable and cute that they found themselves forced into a role they may not have wanted to play forever, that of being terminally adorable and cute. Thus, they smile constantly and inappropriately to show off their darling facial deformity. I knew a woman once who was so personally enamoured by her prominent dimples she simply could never stop smiling and it eventually got to the point of everyone wanting to punch her lights out because she stood grinning maniacally as you told her the worst possible news.

“Edna, my home burned to the ground and we’re left with nothing. ” Response; “I’m so terribly sorry to hear of your tragic news. ”Grin. “Edna, our cat gakked up a furball the size of a pressure cooker right on my husband’s boss’s shoes just as I’d started to serve Cherries Jubilee last Saturday night. ” Response; “Terrible news dear, I’m so sorry, you must have been very upset. ”Enormous grin. Edna’s was not a nervous grin as most of us engage in from time to time. No, she was grinning because she’d always been told her dimples made her look sweet and cute, and as the habit became constant, she was unable to stop.

I remember a girl I knew who had really long eyelashes. From her youth, she’d been told about the stunning length and thickness of those lashes, and so every time she turned to look at someone, she jammed her eyes open impossibly wide and then batted the lashes really hard, like she was trying to shake something off them, just in case the viewer didn’t get it. It was some distracting, I can tell you.

And there’s one other physical trait we should never tell toddlers that makes them feel irresistible and superior; eyeballs. When a little girl, and it’s usually that brand of toddler, is told she has fabulous eyes, as she grows, she sometimes tries to keep them perpetually forced wide open. It becomes vital to that girl to make sure everyone is aware of her wondrous eyeballs. Doesn’t it hurt to force one’s eyes open that wide all the time? How can they keep that going? Don’t their eyes dry out? Do they do it all day long? I’d say yes, because in order to keep a habit going in public, you must practice continually in private. Sorry, but people who do that look like they have a thyroid condition suitable for Ripley’s “Believe It or Not,” or that they’re standing in a working wind tunnel. It just isn’t normal to see a half-inch of white around one’s irises. I don’t know about you, but peering into a person’s conjunctiva grosses me out. Well, that’s my take on these things. Just stuff I’ve noticed. I could be wrong.

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Surprise Poppies


 
I haven’t seen these in years;
I don’t recall their name,

Flowers the purest gold
Sprawling along the roadside

Like a pool of sunshine
Kissing the green turf.

Each blossom, delicate as tears,
Forms a perfect wheel.

I don’t need a name
To know beauty, feel bliss.

©2019 John I. Blair, 3/22/2019

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Dawn of Day



This is the dawn of day
Everything she wanted to say
Nothing could ever get in her way
It’s the dawn of day

These are the secrets she keeps
All the faded images every time that she weeps
These are the dreams she contrives
It only hurts if you get out of this alive

This is the dawn of day
Moments of silence have gone away
Complex thoughts of those who have stayed
It’s the dawn of day

Are you better off not knowing
Are you better off being misunderstood
There are tears and scars that are showing
I would be there for you, only if I could

This is the dawn of day
Everything she wished she could say
Nothing could ever keep her in place
This is the dawn of day

These are the stories she keeps
All the fallen angels she dreams about when she sleeps
Each melody she sings she falls further and far
She makes a wish on a nearby star

This is the dawn of day
Everything she wanted to say
Nothing could ever get in her way
It’s the dawn of day

©3/9/19 Bruce Clifford

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March Cypress


 
The cypress, graceful, tall,
Spreads her bare knees
In the March sunshine
To warm them,
To test the breeze.

A grand old dame
Relaxing on the lawn,
Wearing her windblown dress,
Not caring what the rest think,
She has just herself to please.

©2019 John I. Blair, 3/24/2019

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Catitude


 
Last night I saw my cat and said,
"Could I please have my chair?"
He arched his back, he stretched and purred,
But never moved a hair.
I said to him, "My feline friend,
Who do you think you are?"
He answered me with just a blink,
"You KNOW I am a star!"

"My cat," I said, "Who do you think
Has fed you every day?"
He then rolled over on his back
And my cat seemed to say,
"You KNOW I only eat my meals
If I am in the mood.
I'd rather be here in your chair.
Now please don't make me brood."

I smiled and scratched him on his neck
And said, "Sit with me, please."
He yawned and stretched and seemed to day,
"Well........IF you don't have fleas."

©2009 Beverly Walker

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Earthen House


 
My father wished to live
in an earthen house,
a dugout roofed with grass,
when he grew old.

It reminded him
how his folk had dwelled
in Oklahoma’s early days
in dens of dirt, of sod.

An engineer, he knew
earthen homes saved energy,
were warm in winter,
cool in summer.

But I think he also knew
how they preserved the land,
saved forests, kept the soil
secure against erosion.

His dream would never happen;
I wonder if he guessed
soil would surround him anyway
at the end.

©2019 John I. Blair, 3/12/2019

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Crossing Over


 
A soft brown lump
on the gray asphalt
of the street.

What thoughts flickered
through the squirrel’s brain
before the car hit?

Zeal to reach the other curb?
Memories of better trees?
“I’m here; that’s there”?

Not so different
from my own thoughts as I drive,
trusting I’ll arrive alive.

©2019 John I. Blair, 3/12/2019

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St.Patrick's Day


 
 
Have you seen the Leprechaun, he comes around each year
He'll do his very best, to offer you some green beer
He dances around in a jig, all dressed up in green
It's the most spectacular sight, that you've ever seen
They say he's been searching everywhere, for a pot of gold
Every time we see him, he doesn't seem to look that old
He tells everyone, he doesn't like to cook
Yet he'll eat a Ruben sandwich, if you take a look

Some say he spent too much time, at the Blarney Stone
Many still consider him, to be the Happy Gnome
A Leprechaun, is what you'll always see
That is all, he'd ever hope to be

A four leaf clover, is his lucky charm
A three leaf clover, will only cause alarm
Dance a jig, put on something green
Any other color on this day, should never be seen

You don't have to be Irish, to celebrate this holiday
Dance around in your green underwear, and enjoy it anyway
St. Patrick's Day is here again, let's all go green
Let's dance around the shamrock, and everywhere in between
©Mar 14, 2019 Bud Lemire
                         Author Note:
Normally I don't wear green for this Holiday. Although I do have a
green shirt I can wear. If you're Irish, it's a must to celebrate your
heritage on this day. For me, I celebrate the Celtic music, that has
me dancing a jig every time I hear it playing. It has me celebrating
St. Patrick's Day every time I hear it. Happy St. Patrick's day!
.

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Four A.M.


 
All I can think about
Is sleep; in that quest
I lose.

At four a.m.
The only sounds
Are the PC humming,
The furnace blowing,
My ears ringing.

It’s early March;
Spring should be here;
Winter stays.
Despite birds, flowers,
The world is dark.

The people in my life
Are growing few.
It’s all that I can do
To lift a phone
And call those who survive.

Sitting by the bed of one today
I talked inanely
Of books and cats,
Realizing all the while
I shunned the truth.

But this remains:
We can cry alone
Or we can smile
And comfort one another.

I know which I choose.

©2019 John I. Blair, 3/2/2019

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White


 
By luck of genes
I’m one whose skin’s
Described as “white”

Though there’s scarce
A patch of white upon
Its freckled surface.

When I was young
Books overflowed
With folk like me,

Movies, TV shows,
Newspapers, cartoons,
Magazines.

Teachers all were white,
Preachers in most churches,
Clerks in stores, police.

But if no one had been black
Our whiteness would have had
No meaning and no purpose,

Just an inconvenience
In a land of too much sun,
Too much scorching weather.

So we were blessed
By having someone
We were different from,

Someone we could use,
Abuse, and even own –
And justify our crimes.

What a gift our God
Had given us in this;
What a curse to them.

And now,
Past four hundred years
Of legacy,

How we ache
To heal these wounds
That may never truly seal.

©2019 John I. Blair, 3/2/2019

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Remember When



Can you still remember when
Do you ever think of then
You once said I was heaven sent
Can you still remember when

Do you ever think about
Can you ever live without
You once said you had no doubts
What do you ever think about

Can you still remember when
Can you still think of then
What once was is now again
Can you still remember when

Do you ever think of me
All the things that could never be
You once said I’m all you could see
Do you ever think of me

Can you still remember when
So long ago and way back when
Do you ever think of then
Can you still remember when

©3/3/19 Bruce Clifford

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Friday, March 1, 2019

Editor's Corner

March 2019

"Being Irish, I always had this love of words." 
-- Kenneth Branagh.

Here it is again - the month almost everyone celebrates being or pretends they are Irish because the 17th is for Saint Patrick's Day. We proudly recall an Encore "Cookin' with Leo" column from 2008, with his remarks on said day plus a great recipe for Lent whether you require abstinence or not. Here is a 2009 link to another tasty Saint Patrick's Day recipe from the late Leo Helmer Making Good Irish Cream.


Mattie Lennon, "Irish Eyes" - talks about the March 12th celebration of the World Day Against Cyber Censorship; a neat invention or adaptation by a charming entrepreneur Sharon Doyle; and announces the official launch of Team Ireland to participate in the 2019 Word Summer Games in Abu Dhabi.  Judith Kroll, "On Trek" - features two poems from turning points in her life , "Destiny" and "Dad."

LC VanSavage's column "Consider This" talks games but her article is about "Houses and Their Ghosts." Marilyn Carnell, whose column "Sifoddling Along" defines her as "The Ultimate Pet Lady," tells why that title.

Thomas F. O'Neill, "Introspective" tells a touching and hopeful tale while Melinda Cohenour's "Armchair Genealogy" takes a break to go to the lake areas around Oklahoma City and blesses us with photos and information about the waterfowl she found.

The poems we are sharing for March are:
    Carrie E. Joslin's "To Virginia;"
    two poems by Linnie Jane Joslin Burks- "In "Dugbe," and "Marriage - Sacred;"
    Bruce Clifford sends "Missing the Point"
    John I. Blair sent in "Dandelions" and "The Conversation."
    Bud Lemire's three poems are "Journey Within A Book," "I Love Your Blue Vest," and along with his photo - "Me, in A Nutshell;"  while Mary E. Adair, your editor, has composed "Through the Alphabet." 
    Mike Craner, without whom this ezine would have never made the web, deserves many bouquets for his expertise and patience. He has added some of his poems and stories, though none recently with his demanding occupation, but to access his bio and a clickable list of his work here is the link.

    See you in April 2019 !!!

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    This issue appears in the ezine at www.pencilstubs.com and also in the blog www.pencilstubs.net with the capability of adding comments at the latter.

Armchair Genealogy


A Departure From Genealogy

This past month plus has been a very trying time for your author. In bed with lobar pneumonia and Type A influenza, feeling more miserable than one could imagine, racked with side splitting coughs, headaches, no appetite, and debilitating muscle soreness, my only respite - brief trips to Lake Hefner! My sweet husband treated me to brief tours around that lovely lake to see the waterfowl.

Lake Hefner is one of five Oklahoma City lakes originally planned to help retain rain, snow, and ice melts in an area often hit with drought. This particular lake is the locale of one of the nation's finest public golf courses as well.

Oklahoma City advertises Lake Hefner, providing the following information:
"Lake Hefner was built in 1947 and is considered the premier location for sailboating in OKC. In addition to fishing, picnicking, and golfing, Lake Hefner is well-known for outdoor recreation. Trails trace the entire lake and stretch just over nine miles in total. They are 12 feet wide and covered asphalt, and the east side of the lake also contains some six-foot-wide trails specifically for pedestrians. The area features numerous well-kept parks for the kids, and you'll often find families walking, lounging, or flying a kite. The lighthouse is a photo destination, and the ​​​East Wharf restaurants offer some of the best views in the metro. "It sits in Northwest Oklahoma City, west of the Lake Hefner Parkway, as far north as Hefner Road, and south past Wilshire. It's also accessible from Northwest Expressway.
"You can fish, sail (it's home to the Oklahoma City Boat Club), enjoy outdoor recreation trails, use picnic areas, go on playgrounds, use the enclosed and heated fishing dock, and play on the public golf course."

In addition to Lake Hefner, Oklahoma City boasts four other metro lakes. Our second most favorite is Lake Overholser:
"Originally constructed in 1919, Oklahoma City's Lake Overholser is the metro's oldest reservoir. It was built as a water supply to a still-operating water treatment plant at NW 6th and Pennsylvania Avenue. Named after the city's 16th mayor, it has several boat ramps, a covered fishing pier, and picnic areas. OKC Riversport operates its ​Adventures program at Overholser​ and offers kayaking, stand-up paddleboarding, and pedal boats. "It's in Northwest Oklahoma City, just southwest of Lake Hefner, south of Route 66, and north of I-40 between Council and Morgan Roads.
"You can enjoy boating, water sports, fishing (there's a covered fishing pier), picnic areas with a covered pavilion, soccer fields, and tennis courts."

The three other OKC metro lakes (reservoirs) are Lake Thunderbird, Arcadia Lake, and Lake Stanley Draper.

One of our frequent outings is a birding tour of Lake Hefner. One is treated to a manicured expanse of lush green lawn over much of the park area, due to the professional maintenance of the two golf courses. Spanning the areas between are a lushly wooded expanse, parts of which are dense woodland and home to a wide variety of wildlife: fox, deer, skunk, and squirrel, to name the most common. Birds of many types are attracted to the lake, meadowland, pasture, and woodland areas. We see the greatest variety in the resident and migrating waterfowl.

One of our annual treats is the arrival of the white pelican flocks as they make their way south for the winter. They are usually seen here starting in December and disappear about March. The dates are inexact, dependent upon the weather and the flocks' instincts. Often, there are a few who stay the full time, while the larger numbers complete their travel further south. Occasionally, the largest flocks are accompanied by Anahingas or Cormorants, or both.

Here is a picture from my phone of a large mixed migrating flock of white pelicans and either Anahinga or Cormorants. I believe, Cormorants, because of the shorter, squared off tail. It is also possible all three species are represented. They were perched on the breakwater concrete which both absorbs and reflects sun heat. The entire length of the breakwater was covered, top, and both sides with the mixed flock.


On the same day, a cove near the eastern edge of Lake Hefner provided comfortable feeding for Canadian geese, Mallard ducks, a Crested Duck, mudhens, and on shore a large number of gulls, grackle, pigeons, starlings, and even a handful of Robins.


Here (left pic) is a Cormorant, drying his wings. And here (right pic) a sentinel Pelican on Lake Overholser. On the most recent trip from the doctor's, we found no pelicans or their Cormorant or Anahinga companions. We decided to drive to Lake Overholser. That lake was dotted over its entire length and breadth with our missing flock! The bill color (quite orange on the Cormorant, black or blackish on the Anahinga) and tail shapes help to distinguish the two "cousins".



Different flocks are present at Lake Hefner at different times of the year. In September of 2014, we were treated to a real surprise! It was my first view of these really odd looking ducks. They were large, with varied colors of feathers. Their one distinguishing characteristic even differed from one to another - the red "growths" that mottled their faces.


After some quick Google research, I was able to identify these Halloweenish birds as the exotic Muscovy Ducks.


A small group of the large flock of Muscovy Ducks at Lake Hefner September 14, 2014. 

Second picture shows the disparity in size between the Mallard and Wood ducks and the migrant Muscovy ducks.

 Third picture shows the Domestic Goose, the American Pekin duck (popularized as the icon Aflac Duck by the insurance company's ad genius), and a variety of Muscovy, Wood, and Mallard ducks.

And, as my special photo offering, we were treated to a sighting of Swedish Ducks in 2015. They were present for several visits but I've not noted them since. Here are two of the Swedish Ducks, with their varied plumage, grazing among a flock of gulls.

These three Pelican pics were taken at the boat docks of Lake Hefner late last year in December 2018. Included here because they show how their gracefulness enhances them, turning the bird often thought homely to a creature of beauty. All many people know about the Pelican is the verse --
 What a strange bird is the Pelican/ His beak can hold more than his belly can.
 

 

 These motor tours offer so much joy for the avid birder or aged outdoorsperson (both descriptors fit your author) as every trip to the lake or a wooded area provides a new look. Changing scenery blesses this lake with bright Fall colors, neon and lacy Spring greens, Summer lush cover, and Winter ice on bare branches spotted with the plethora of evergreens. The lake water sparkles or simmers under bright sun or grey clouds.

This month's column has been a treat for your author and, I hope, for you readers as well. Next month I plan to return in earnest to Armchair Genealogy and divulge the results of my research into another Patriot ancestor, this time on my Hempleman line (paternal).

See you next month!

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On Trek

Destiny

When you look at me what do you see?
I remember when it was just WE
No one else was in the world...
we were a world of our own.
Eyes for you,
eyes for me,
life was ours,
Destiny.

Then you found someone new..
younger, cuter,
full of life,
as I was once upon a time.
I was yours
you were mine.
Eyes for you,
eyes for me,
life was ours,
destiny
My only “fault”
was growing old,
where love should prosper
not grow cold.

I still thank the stars that we had met,
still many memories linger..yet.
They make me smile,
I learned from you,
you learned from me
Life was ours.
Destiny..
For those moments
©3/2012 Judith Kroll




Dad

I miss that smile on your face--it's true.
I listen for a joke to come out of the blue.
The stories you told to teach lessons of life;
Your after shave smell-- that good Old Spice;
The knowledge you shared to help lessons be learned;
Your hard work ethics that we all have earned.
Memories pile up when I focus on you.
Yes, 69 years each other we knew.
I thank you for your visits since the day you gently passed.
I am happy you are happy with mom...at last.
Thinking of you, Pop.
Love, Judy


©1/26/'19 Judith Kroll


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